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Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Karin (8/18/2009 8:47:15 AM): Hi Jeff, Took a "true colors" test online this morning - thought I'd share some of the results with you..."In love you seek a relationship with shared activates and interests. With your mate you like to explore new ways to energize the relationship. You need to be bold and thrive on physical contact. You enjoy giving extravagant gifts that bring obvious pleasure to your loved one."
Karin (8/18/2009 8:47:49 AM): hmmm...seems accurate enough! ...lol
Later...
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:30:53 AM): Hi, Karin.....just popped on for sec before meeting....saw your personality test..!! < g >Karin (8/18/2009 10:31:26 AM): hi!!! busy day!!??
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:31:38 AM): kinda...how bout you..?
Karin (8/18/2009 10:32:23 AM): yep, busy day...how'd you like the test results?
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:34:54 AM): interesting... can I do my own test tho..?? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 10:35:23 AM): Sure...
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:35:45 AM): well...mine also involves face to face testing..!!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 10:36:00 AM): Ah-ha...that would be much more fun!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:36:11 AM): yes..!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:36:14 AM): ...
Karin (8/18/2009 10:36:35 AM): you never did tell me what you were thinking the other day... :)
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:37:40 AM): I dont remember exactly what I was thinking at the moment.....we may hafta work our way back to that point..!!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:38:06 AM): yeah...hmmm...when were you born?
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:38:36 AM): December... Im a Capricorn...
Karin (8/18/2009 10:39:15 AM): ah, okay (not that I am a "believer" - I think we are all "captains of our own ships)
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:39:33 AM): Im more of a first mate........
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:39:44 AM): but...I dont really put too much stock in it, either...
Karin (8/18/2009 10:40:16 AM): sure, I'm not sure that I believe that first mate thing...lol (you're talking to a Leo...we love to be in charge...but not ALL the time)
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:41:09 AM): so...what time's do you like to be in charge..??? ...that's just rhetorical...you dont hafta answer..!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:41:31 AM): :) I think that depends on my mood!!! ...but, I can be an open book, in the right circumstances...
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:42:49 AM): Hmmm...interesting.......well...Ms K...for now...Ill hafta close the book....cause I hafta run off to meeting...Ill try to look for you later...you gonna be around at all..?
Karin (8/18/2009 10:43:08 AM): yeah, till about 6 pm I think
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:43:18 AM): k.....Ill cya in a bit....!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:43:23 AM): okay :)
Later...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:20:17 PM): are we having fun this afternoon..??
Karin (8/18/2009 3:20:38 PM): yes...I think we are...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:20:54 PM): wow...I wanna be where you are then..!!!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:21:14 PM): maybe not...it's work fun...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:21:30 PM): how are the lips??
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:21:51 PM): they're still pouting....< g >....
Karin (8/18/2009 3:22:05 PM): can I help...?!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:22:20 PM): I was gonna say...I could sit quietly next to you and watch you do that fun work.....but...Im not sure I could sit quietly next to you...!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:23:09 PM): I doubt that I'd be working either... "sit quietly" ...just does not compute...with next to you!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:23:36 PM): no...these pouty lips...would probably start twitching...!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:24:18 PM): hmmm :) ...not sure what to say now!! except, that I could help you control that!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:24:39 PM): I suspect you could certainly help that..!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:25:23 PM): you know the a/c is on here, but, once again, I suddenly feel way too warm... :} ...you have a way of doing that to me...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:25:46 PM): that's that furnace in you...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:25:55 PM): not my fault..!!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:26:16 PM): perhaps, but I was pretty comfortable a few moments earlier...I think it IS your fault... :}
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:26:59 PM): so...this furnace...again...does this mean that you don't like your guy snuggling behind you at night in bed..??
Karin (8/18/2009 3:27:38 PM): no, I do like it, but he may get too warm...doesn't bother me at all...I like that very much!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:28:46 PM): k....just wanted to make sure.....not that it has any immediate relevance......but...that is my fav way to fall asleep...!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:29:55 PM): specially on a cold winters night...I might need all of that warmth..!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:30:01 PM): right now, one of my cats likes to experience the heat at night.... sigh...think of the savings in the heating bill...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:30:27 PM): ah... well...maybe I could persuade her to share....?? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:30:46 PM): I think you could...hmmm ...do you like cats / dogs?
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:31:43 PM): hmmm....< g >... I am probably more of a dog guy...than cat....never really had a cat... except 100 years ago...when I first started dating my ex... she had cat...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:32:35 PM): I seem to always have both...this one was daughter's until she decided to move away / go to grad school...then he became mine (not sure how that all worked...to this day)
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:33:07 PM): yeah...I know how those things happen with the kids..!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:33:53 PM): yes, I'm sure you do! if I have another dog after this one, it's going to be a standard poodle - simply because they do not shed!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:34:53 PM): yeah... I can understand not wanting shedding all over...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:35:12 PM): right, I could make 10 sweaters each year... lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:35:37 PM): ugh...< g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:35:43 PM): exactly!! okay - time to move on from that topic
Karin (8/18/2009 3:36:13 PM): questions??
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:36:41 PM): are you asking them...or answering them..?? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:37:07 PM): I'm happy either way - do you have something that you'd like to ask??
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:37:39 PM): hmm....not right at the moment... but...Im sure I will...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:38:29 PM): yes, well, here's a general question...what do you like to do on a Sunday morning?
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:38:54 PM): am I alone...or with someone that I care about..??
Karin (8/18/2009 3:39:12 PM): with someone that you care about...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:40:13 PM): k...well...I hafta say that Id assume that there would be some snuggling...upon awakening... in fact...one of us would wake the other with kisses...!!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:40:26 PM): nice!
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:41:27 PM): I seriously think there should be blocked out on most Sundays… (not all, cause life does get in the way at times...)... a good part of the morning...or the afternoon...or evening... where we just take each other in our arms...lots of hugging... kissing... massaging... again...I think that's very important...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:42:20 PM): I agree that some "set" time is required!!! do you like to share a shower?
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:42:50 PM): absolutely...could you handle that..???
Karin (8/18/2009 3:43:07 PM): oh, yeah! would love that...sigh
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:43:47 PM): me too me too...much soaping...and shampooing... of each other...!!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:44:18 PM): how nice would that be!!!???
Karin (8/18/2009 3:44:26 PM): coffee?
Karin (8/18/2009 3:44:33 PM): tea?
Karin (8/18/2009 3:44:38 PM): or me???
Karin (8/18/2009 3:45:01 PM): sorry, I had to add the last corny line...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:45:07 PM): Im a coffee drinker... (and you...of course... < g >...not much into tea...cept maybe when Im sick... (a throwback to my childhood days)...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:45:29 PM): yep, same here...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:45:40 PM): I like to do leisurely read of paper... and have my coffee... maybe bagel with it...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:46:31 PM): do you like smoked fish, lox, etc.?
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:47:08 PM): I am...... I dont know if we've done religions yet... have we... and this may throw you...but... Im Jewish... so I hafta do lox..!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:47:38 PM): yeah...me too...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:48:03 PM): so... you significant other must love lox...huh...?? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 3:48:47 PM): my maternal grandmother was Jewish, but her mother died in childbirth, her father was the "stableman" for the czar and died not long after...so I guess religion went out the window
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:49:09 PM): ah.....I see......
Karin (8/18/2009 3:49:19 PM): my father was German, but raised in the St. Pete, Russia area until he was in his teens
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:49:28 PM): Interesting...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:50:15 PM): I was baptized Lutheran (catholic light -lol) but, have experienced numerous religions and was never able to settle on any one...think that's unfortunate in some ways
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:51:30 PM): well... again...Im Jewish... culturally... but... dont feel very spiritual...unfortunately...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:52:25 PM): religion is a difficult thing to hang onto these days
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:53:17 PM): yeah...well...especially for my Jewish friends... they seem to find much less sustenance in the religion than non-Jews...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:53:43 PM): hmmm, that's interesting ...I wonder why?? ...everyone that I dated when I was younger was Jewish, I ended up with the Catholics (non-practicing), I've settled on just being a good person...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:54:23 PM): and since my marriage ended... I’ve dated mostly Catholics...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:54:42 PM): that is interesting when you think about it...I can't claim any particular religion as my own...
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:55:33 PM): and I dont feel anything from my religion...!!
Karin (8/18/2009 3:55:54 PM): hmm, I understand that.
Karin (8/18/2009 3:56:16 PM): So, how long were you married?
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:56:23 PM): 21 years...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:56:45 PM): a good long while
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:57:12 PM): yep... it was... tho it ended about 12 years ago...
Karin (8/18/2009 3:57:58 PM): do you have regrets
Jeff (8/18/2009 3:59:09 PM): no regrets... as far as ending the marriage... it was not a happy place for me... of course, I feel badly that it hurt her that I wanted out... and I feel a bit badly for my kids... tho... they are far beyond there, now…
Karin (8/18/2009 3:59:43 PM): I've been married and divorced twice, and now single for about 17 years (swore off men for 15 years)...lol...but yes, it's difficult for kids
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:00:31 PM): well...for my kids...the difficult thing is that their mother is so difficult to deal with...and they dont have me as buffer any more...
Karin (8/18/2009 4:01:26 PM): in some ways I was lucky because my daughter's father (first husband) was not around -his choice- so there was no conflict
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:02:11 PM): yes...well… my kids have ongoing difficulties with their mother... especially my daughter...
Karin (8/18/2009 4:02:49 PM): kids always want -and need- to feel close to their parents...especially the same sex parent
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:05:39 PM): no problem...
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:06:50 PM): well...I was always close to my kids... I think Im proudest of my relationship with them... of any aspect of my life...
Karin (8/18/2009 4:07:48 PM): children are pretty amazing, they tend to remind us of the things that are truly important in life
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:08:16 PM): no doubt about it...and now Im lucky enough to have a wonderful little granddaughter..!
Karin (8/18/2009 4:08:37 PM): yeah, that is so sweet!
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:08:52 PM): yep...it's pretty neat....!
Karin (8/18/2009 4:09:33 PM): alright...back to simple...favorite color??
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:13:57 PM): hmmm....maybe.....green...as perverse as that is..!
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:14:18 PM): how bout you..?
Karin (8/18/2009 4:14:55 PM): I am also very fond of green...but, lately blue has been sneaking in too...
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:15:12 PM): yeah...I think my fav...may vary with my mood....
Karin (8/18/2009 4:15:25 PM): right
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:15:49 PM): so....are you done with your work for the day... or more to do yet...?
Karin (8/18/2009 4:16:53 PM): thought I was done, but I need to do one more thing
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:17:11 PM): very good... I probably should go get a thing or 2 done here yet too...
Karin (8/18/2009 4:17:55 PM): yep...I'm meeting a couple for dinner tonight...long time friends, so I need to get dressed too
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:18:26 PM): yes...to go out in a slinky nightgown... probably wouldnt work...!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 4:18:57 PM): how did you know??!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:19:20 PM): you probably are beginning to see how my mind works...< g >
Karin (8/18/2009 4:19:24 PM): I like to dance around the house in my bra and panties - unless the carpenter is coming...now you see that my mind is in the same place!! ha!
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:20:29 PM): see...how I am taken aback...lol..
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:20:44 PM): that sounds like pretty delectable picture... am I allowed to say that..??
Karin (8/18/2009 4:21:13 PM): I'm that person dashing around trying to find clothes when someone rings the doorbell...!
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:21:59 PM): I happen to think a bra and panties...is about the heighth of sexiness..!! < g >...but...you probably didnt wanna hear that...lol
Karin (8/18/2009 4:22:25 PM): no, it's okay - I feel pretty comfortable that way - obviously!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:23:00 PM): I suspect the thought of you...a bra and panties... may inspire some fantasies for me tonight..!! < g >
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:23:24 PM): again...too much info..!
Karin (8/18/2009 4:23:33 PM): again, you're going to have to "tell all" ... lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:23:34 PM): for you...
Karin (8/18/2009 4:23:46 PM): no, not too much for me...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:24:06 PM): I have found myself wondering what it would be like to really kiss you...you know...?
Karin (8/18/2009 4:24:17 PM): debriefing will take place next time we chat...
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:24:26 PM): k... go have fun...!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 4:24:37 PM): yes...later
Karin (8/18/2009 4:24:44 PM): you too
Karin (8/18/2009 4:24:46 PM): bye
Jeff (8/18/2009 4:24:55 PM): bye Ms K..!
Later...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:03:56 PM): all freshened up...?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:04:48 PM): yes
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:05:04 PM): k... Ill swing by in 45 minutes...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:05:22 PM): that'd be great...what would you like to do tonight?
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:05:51 PM): Nice dinner… great restaurant... a glass or 2 of wine.....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:06:01 PM): sounds good...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:06:07 PM): maybe go for a stroll… if it cools off a bit....?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:06:39 PM): do I get to have a kiss?? (I think I'm fixated ...)
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:07:15 PM): you promised me... at least one long slow soft kiss... after that... you can decide... whether we stop...or there's more..!
Karin (8/18/2009 5:07:57 PM): I have a feeling there will be more...but you'll have to tell me too, based on the kiss
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:08:26 PM): I have that same feeling... I have this strong intuition... that you have most wonderful lips....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:08:46 PM): I know you have criteria...yes, same thoughts on my end.
Karin (8/18/2009 5:09:09 PM): here goes a comparison...hope you do not mind...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:09:17 PM): sure...fire away...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:09:50 PM): I had a boyfriend...first boyfriend in high school with lips very similar to yours...and he was the best kisser...ever!!! ...so, I think, based on accumulated data, as well as what I know about you thus far...that you would be pretty amazing!! but, no pressure...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:11:21 PM): well...again....I think based on your pics... and chatting with you... that I may have a hard time stopping once I start nibbling on your lips..!!
Karin (8/18/2009 5:11:55 PM): sigh...you make it difficult for me to not think about you...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:12:11 PM): is it ok... if I let my imagination go a bit wild... over you..??
Karin (8/18/2009 5:12:23 PM): only if I can do the same!!??
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:12:53 PM): then do we compare notes..?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:13:26 PM): I think...we should compare notes ...but, you'll have to go first...but not to worry, I have a tendency to jump right in
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:14:01 PM): will go simultaneously..!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:14:19 PM): sounds fair enough!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:14:38 PM): so...you getting ready to head out..?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:15:17 PM): not quite yet, we are meeting at 6:30 in Aurora - a good half-way point for us
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:15:39 PM): k... are you all dolled up...??
Karin (8/18/2009 5:15:43 PM): this couple have been good friends of mine since 1978 or 79
Karin (8/18/2009 5:15:54 PM): yes, just need a little lipstick
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:16:05 PM): that's nice... about long time friends...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:16:42 PM): here's a little tidbit about me...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:16:49 PM): yes...?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:17:10 PM): I love red sandals in the summer time...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:17:58 PM): but...then you're essentially inviting your guy to pay attention to your feet... would you mind if he did..??
Karin (8/18/2009 5:18:31 PM): no, I love feet (yes, another bit of strange info.!!!....lol)
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:19:06 PM): you love feet... do you love to pay attention to his... or have him pay attention to yours... or both...?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:19:10 PM): I think that's why I like to have the foot spa / pedicure, I think that feet are sexy
Karin (8/18/2009 5:19:20 PM): both - I think...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:19:36 PM): I think I do too...< g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:20:12 PM): hmmm...I have a candy apple red polish on my toes at this moment...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:20:34 PM): mmmm...that sounds kinda delicious...!! lol
Karin (8/18/2009 5:20:38 PM): it's actually kind of funny, because I give my feet more attention than my hands
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:21:15 PM): so...are you appalled if your guy goes to kiss your freshly showered foot...?? < g >....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:21:58 PM): not at all...as I said earlier...all body parts are game...!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:22:20 PM): sorry... I don't think I have a foot fetish... but...an attractive foot could be very delicious to kiss...etc...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:22:49 PM): I understand...I don't have a foot fetish either (I think...)
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:23:11 PM): hmmm......she's twice added an "I think"...when discussing feet..!!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:23:41 PM): makes you wonder, huh? ...makes ME wonder as well!! funny!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:23:55 PM): hmmmm..< g >....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:24:23 PM): I have a question, but I don't believe that I can go there quite yet...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:24:45 PM): you can...< g >...I really wont run...!!!
Karin (8/18/2009 5:25:03 PM): you sure? ...okay, here goes...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:25:10 PM): k....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:25:20 PM): do you have any "parts" that you feel are off-limits?
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:25:36 PM): on me...or you...or both of us...? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:25:53 PM): you know, some people do not like to be touched in some places...both, I think
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:26:33 PM): no... I really dont... I mean... obviously… its a question of how your touched... in certain places...but... there are no off limits places...as far as Im concerned...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:26:47 PM): yes, ditto here
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:27:02 PM): k... Im storing that in my memory banks...< g >...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:27:37 PM): Ha! ...it's not like we are talking about alien probing here...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:28:06 PM): darn… I was into alien probing...!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:28:40 PM): but...seriously...a kiss...or a touch or a caress... anywhere and everywhere... can be wonderful and exciting...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:29:10 PM): shoot! did I just sound as though I was eliminating that possibility??? ...can I retract that statement??
Karin (8/18/2009 5:29:30 PM): yes, we are sooo on the same page...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:29:31 PM): aha...the alien-abductee fantasy...!!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:29:58 PM): well, that's something I've not considered before...you are opening new doors for me!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:30:38 PM): I can't say I’ve actually been through that particular door...!! ....But it does sound like it could be kinda erotic..!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:31:19 PM): I am into much giving and receiving of pleasure....and I think that can come from lots of different things.....and lots of different....body parts..!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:31:27 PM): I guess that I'd simply like to feel that comfortable with someone, that a lot of things would be open for "exploration" -- now I just sound like I'm perverted...but, I'm really not...sheesh!! spanking, tickling, alien probes ... what would I expect you to think ...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:32:30 PM): phone here....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:32:33 PM): k
Karin (8/18/2009 5:33:16 PM): hafta run upstairs for a bra - brb
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:36:39 PM): are you doing that on my account...? getting your bra..?? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:38:14 PM): no, sorry, too well-endowed to go bra-less
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:38:38 PM): see how Im tongue tied on that..??
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:39:00 PM): so...she's into spanking, tickling, alien probes... and going around bra - less..!
Karin (8/18/2009 5:39:01 PM): ah, yes, sorry - I can be less "familiar"...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:39:24 PM): Im teasing...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:39:28 PM): I did tell you that I was pretty open...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:40:06 PM): I think Im pretty open too... I mean... I dont know that Id wanna make mad passionate love in the middle of a restaurant...< g >...but...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:40:16 PM): however, this is not a conversation that I would be having with just anyone...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:40:28 PM): no, yeah, not that open here either, more like a "private" open
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:40:53 PM): I wouldnt be discussing this either...if I didnt feel a lot chemistry......I agree on private open...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:40:58 PM): I'm definitely not an exhibitionist ...in public places...too shy for that
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:41:32 PM): I am open to a lot of different things... with my partner... if she enjoys it....I tend to enjoy it...although, I agree... Im not an exhibitionist...!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:41:49 PM): I mean...I dont have a problem with a public display of affection...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:42:04 PM): hand holding...arm around your waist... chaste... kiss.....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:42:12 PM): intimacy, I think, is all about secrets that you have with your partner
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:42:20 PM): but...to attack you in public....isnt really my thing...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:42:39 PM): right, on the affection display... that's not really giving anything away...the hand holding, etc., is something that's very nice
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:43:28 PM): I agree… and again...I dont know that Im particularly ...kinky....or anything...but...it can be fun...to move a bit out of Ozzie and Harriet...at times....
Karin (8/18/2009 5:43:57 PM): you kill me...too much in common!! ...I think that I am like you in many ways...for me that can be a very good thing
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:44:43 PM): I agree... and obviously...have similar sexual views and physical desires... is usual a big plus....
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:45:01 PM): and having very different sexual views... can be a big problem...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:45:05 PM): certainly a big plus, and right -different views- that usually leads to no sex...could be a drag!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:45:52 PM): and as you said before....getting to the point... where you really open up to your partner...about your deepest desires... is an interesting point..!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:46:44 PM): I want to find that connection (... of course, along with other things too!!)...not just ALL sex...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:47:19 PM): of course not...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:47:38 PM): as you said, the affection part is pretty vital to a good relationship
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:47:54 PM): but...I think there should be mass quantities... of affection... warmth, touching...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:48:06 PM): oops...we're on same page...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:48:10 PM): and as you also said, not 20 anymore...obviously goes for me as well
Karin (8/18/2009 5:48:40 PM): we are on the same page - interesting, I think
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:48:54 PM): right...although I continue to have just as much need for my partner to give me a random hug...or kiss...or pinch on the butt... or to tell me she's just glad to have me in her life...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:49:16 PM): and for me to do those same things to her...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:49:24 PM): right
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:49:42 PM): maybe no more sex 15 times in one night... < g >
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:49:59 PM): or is it now... per year..?? < g >...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:50:15 PM): ha! ha! I think per year...lol...there's an old saying that goes something like...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:51:04 PM): ...if you put a quarter in a jar for every time you have sex in the first year of marriage, that it will take the rest of your married life to empty that same jar
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:51:42 PM): yep...course... that still allows you and me to put lots of quarters in..!!! < g >
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:51:57 PM): but again...sex itself...is so much less important to me...than kissing... caressing...etc…etc...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:52:40 PM): yeah, right...that would be fun!! ...and yes, I agree that there are actually many more things that are "hotter" than the actual "doing the deed"...well, you know what I mean...although, I don't want to miss out on "the deed" either...;)
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:53:54 PM): I mean...quite frankly...and maybe this is tipping my hand...I kinda enjoy driving each other into an extreme frenzy... most of all... and having any ...release.... deferred... deferred... ah well…too much info...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:54:47 PM): yeah, not too much information...it surprises me!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:55:20 PM): a Sunday afternoon...of keeping each other in an extreme state of frenzy for hours...would be a pretty nice Sunday afternoon for me...!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:55:40 PM): why does it surprise you...that we're on same page...?
Karin (8/18/2009 5:55:53 PM): for me too...I think I'm already getting there - just with this conversation!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:56:16 PM): well, dear...you aren't the only one...< g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:56:44 PM): evidently it's becoming clear to you that when I get aroused, I can't think!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:57:08 PM): if you were here now… I dont think I could stay on the other side of the room ...or not try to taste those lipsticked lips...!!
Karin (8/18/2009 5:57:27 PM): me too!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:57:48 PM): more more..!!! < g >...
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:58:21 PM): well, Karin... I could go on for some time... but...I promised my son I would swing by his new house...and see how they've progressed on the move in...
Karin (8/18/2009 5:58:27 PM): ha! indeed more!!! ahit's time for me to leave as well, - a move (not so much fun)
Jeff (8/18/2009 5:59:23 PM): course... when you said..."indeed more"... now I wanna know...whether you're a verbal lover... or quiet lover... or a moaning lover... or...or...but...next time..!! < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 5:59:47 PM): yes, well, let the suspense continue...
Jeff (8/18/2009 6:00:14 PM): You like keeping me in this frenzied state… huh..???? < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 6:00:20 PM): I do!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 6:00:26 PM): anyway...have fun... I will be thinking of you tonight...
Karin (8/18/2009 6:00:44 PM): u2 - I'll definitely be thinking of you tonight as well!
Jeff (8/18/2009 6:00:56 PM): k...........bye..!!!!
Karin (8/18/2009 6:00:56 PM): bye for now...
Later...
Karin (8/18/2009 9:02:28 PM): you busy?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:02:53 PM): Hi
Karin (8/18/2009 9:02:59 PM): hi
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:03:22 PM): No but on BlackBerry
Karin (8/18/2009 9:03:30 PM): okay - np
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:03:42 PM): So tough to type
Karin (8/18/2009 9:03:54 PM): yes...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:04:05 PM): How was your dinner
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:04:35 PM): Carpal tunnel !
Karin (8/18/2009 9:04:38 PM): dinner was a lot of fun - had a nice dinner, a good cabernet - turned red from the wine
Karin (8/18/2009 9:04:55 PM): you have carpal tunnel? ouch!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:05:09 PM): Ah that happens
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:05:23 PM): No I don't yet
Karin (8/18/2009 9:05:31 PM): yes
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:05:40 PM): But could with this bb
Karin (8/18/2009 9:06:08 PM): oh good? (I don't drink much!!!) get too silly and can't spell then either.
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:06:39 PM): We wouldn't want you silly
Karin (8/18/2009 9:07:03 PM): sure!!! somehow that did not sound sincere...lol...I'm actually a lot of fun when I'm silly!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:07:49 PM): I might like you silly
Karin (8/18/2009 9:08:05 PM): you probably would!!! ...but I don't ever forget -or not know- what I've done...opps, maybe I should not have told you that...!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:08:49 PM): I can deal with that!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:09:08 PM): I think you'd be fun to be silly with...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:10:00 PM): I think you would too
Karin (8/18/2009 9:10:05 PM): lol...okay...now that I'm loosened up (wine)...I have a question for you...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:10:56 PM): Fire away
Karin (8/18/2009 9:11:01 PM): you know how impulsive I can be... ;}
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:11:46 PM): Are you?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:12:14 PM): (I can be)...so here goes, if you are not busy...say...Oct 17th or 18th...I'd like to take you to a movie??? ...don't want to rush into anything...lol...can you be ready by then??
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:12:48 PM): I can try!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:12:58 PM): is that a yes???
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:13:00 PM): < g >
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:13:04 PM): Sure
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:13:14 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:13:19 PM): Yay!!! I do think that you are both...a sexy and sweet man...can't wait!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:14:09 PM): So we have a date!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:14:17 PM): WE DO!!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:15:00 PM): Course I might just ravage you if I don't see you before lol
Karin (8/18/2009 9:15:31 PM): I'm excited at the prospect!! (of both the movie and the rav!!!) - you'll have to pick the actual day (17th or 18th)...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:16:10 PM): Lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:16:33 PM): Sounds good is that Fri Sat?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:17:18 PM): let's see...the 17th is a Saturday, the 18th is a Sunday, and I'd be happy to throw in Friday the 16th as well, as a choice
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:18:33 PM): Maybe we should just go to movie in NYC that weekend
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:18:42 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:19:07 PM): that would be exciting too! hmmm...so, are you asking me??
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:19:27 PM): Maybe someday
Karin (8/18/2009 9:19:38 PM): yes, good..do you like Chinese food?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:20:16 PM): And if I asked now?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:20:27 PM): Yes
Karin (8/18/2009 9:20:58 PM): I wouldn't turn you down...but I'd like to do this slowly...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:21:42 PM): Of course. One kiss at a time!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:21:43 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:21:46 PM): you've already got me cyber-turned on...I need to get past that part first...lol!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:22:37 PM): I agree
Karin (8/18/2009 9:23:00 PM): sigh...speechless, again...(me I mean)
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:23:55 PM): Me too
Karin (8/18/2009 9:24:23 PM): ha! okay, now I can't wait to see you in the flesh (figuratively at this time...)
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:25:20 PM): I'm looking forward!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:25:29 PM): me too!! hmmm. I believe that I'll be thinking about you all night long!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:26:48 PM): You already gave me permission to think about you
Karin (8/18/2009 9:27:19 PM): yes, I have...do I need to ask you too? don't know that I could help it even if you said "no"
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:28:15 PM): Me too
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:28:28 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:28:30 PM): I'm beginning to think that YOU make me silly...either that, or I need more wine!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:29:39 PM): Can I come pour you a glass?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:30:11 PM): you certainly can...but then you'd have to have some with me...don't drink alone...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:30:38 PM): I
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:30:52 PM): Trust you'd share!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:31:01 PM): I'd share with you!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:31:58 PM): Be nice to have glass of wine with you
Karin (8/18/2009 9:32:15 PM): I believe that I could chat with you all night long...(both in person or online)...and, well...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:33:30 PM): I think we would chat long
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:34:03 PM): But I would eventually try to sneak in a kiss
Karin (8/18/2009 9:34:35 PM): do you want me to wait for you to initiate that??? ...or...???
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:35:50 PM): I think we should both do whatever we want!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:36:07 PM): hallelujah!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:37:00 PM): Are you worried I'd be upset if you initiated first kiss?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:37:06 PM): yes, I might not be able to resist that impulse
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:37:37 PM): Why would that upset me?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:37:57 PM): I'd be flattered
Karin (8/18/2009 9:38:06 PM): just want to know...I don't think that you'd be upset, but I'm asking
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:38:06 PM): No thrilled
Karin (8/18/2009 9:38:15 PM): good...!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:39:01 PM): And hopefully if I initiate first kiss
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:39:14 PM): You won't be upset
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:39:20 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:39:47 PM): nah, I'd probably be quivering in my shoes with excitement...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:40:33 PM): I suspect I will too!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:40:45 PM): just make sure I'm near a wall, or sitting somewhere, so I don't fall down...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:41:09 PM): Yes dear
Karin (8/18/2009 9:41:13 PM): :)
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:41:22 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:41:30 PM): you just seem to make me a bit crazy...in a good way that is!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:42:33 PM): So if we get to know each other well and I wanted you to wear tasteful but sexy nightgown to bed would that be ok?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:43:19 PM): why not? it would be fine...but I have to tell you that I don't like to actually "sleep" in anything...so, I'll start out with something, but am quite sure that I'd end up with nothing...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:44:09 PM): Well I might help you remove
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:44:12 PM): ItKarin (8/18/2009 9:44:19 PM): YESS!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:44:21 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:44:31 PM): how about revealing a secret?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:44:47 PM): Yes?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:45:01 PM): something silly - I'll tell you one and you have to think of one to tell me...you game?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:45:18 PM): Sure
Karin (8/18/2009 9:45:36 PM): ahh, I'm thinking...something innocent...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:45:48 PM): < g >
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:45:58 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:46:25 PM): you are silly!! okay, some friends call me Kitty...derived from Cat Woman...(but not because I have cats)...your turn
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:46:48 PM): But I dot
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:47:02 PM): Don't get the reason?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:47:09 PM): Lol
Karin (8/18/2009 9:47:12 PM): not yet...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:47:44 PM): Are you a tease?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:48:03 PM): maybe!! - I'll tell you after you tell me a secret...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:48:22 PM): Well a lot of my old friends call me Plum
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:48:37 PM): And not for the fruit!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:48:39 PM): okay, I'm curious...the reason for that??? :)
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:49:07 PM): Don't you owe me a reason? Lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:49:37 PM): For Cat!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:49:48 PM): yes, okay...when I'm thinking, I make a small purring/growling sound...what they don't know ...
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:50:10 PM): Yes?!?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:50:16 PM): is that I also do that when there's sex involved...so, Plum???
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:52:33 PM): I'm gonna fantasize tonight about you purring, you know?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:52:43 PM): Ha! I know!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:52:59 PM): Plum was from college hazing
Karin (8/18/2009 9:53:04 PM): yes??
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:53:22 PM): When they intentionally garbled my name
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:53:35 PM): To plumfedder!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:53:50 PM): My buds kept plum!
Karin (8/18/2009 9:54:05 PM): oh, that's funny...plum is a good nickname ...hmmm
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:54:30 PM): I like purring better
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:54:34 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 9:54:42 PM): :)...stuck for words here...lol...I'll just purrrr
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:55:38 PM): So do you think you'll feel a tingle tonight when I think about you
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:55:50 PM): About you purring?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:56:01 PM): man, I hope you do!!! a big tingle
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:56:36 PM): I think it would be very sexy to have you purring
Karin (8/18/2009 9:57:00 PM): I think it'd be sexy for you to have me purring!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:57:29 PM): A good fit
Karin (8/18/2009 9:57:30 PM): I'm pretty convinced that I'll be restless tonight! yes...a good fit...I hope that we like each other when we meet...lol...!! I'm pretty sure that I will like you tho
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:58:51 PM): I feel the same about you
Karin (8/18/2009 9:59:02 PM): so, what time do you get up in the morning?
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:59:30 PM): That's why I keep looking for you
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:59:34 PM): 6
Jeff (8/18/2009 9:59:39 PM): You?
Karin (8/18/2009 9:59:51 PM): looking for me?? how do you mean?
Karin (8/18/2009 10:00:00 PM): me - 5:15
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:00:38 PM): Sometimes 6:30. I come to yahoo to look for you
Karin (8/18/2009 10:01:31 PM): oh, yes...but I'm usually online between 7 am to at least 4 pm and again in the evening
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:02:08 PM): K well ill look for u!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:02:43 PM): please do - I'll be around for you!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:03:08 PM): Its probably time to put you to bed huh?
Karin (8/18/2009 10:03:30 PM): it is...you coming to tuck me in??!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:04:09 PM): If I can give you good night kiss!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:04:26 PM): I definitely want that kiss!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:04:51 PM): Might try to sneak in 2?
Karin (8/18/2009 10:05:14 PM): okay - I'll pretend that I'm not expecting that...it'll be a nice surprise :}
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:05:52 PM): For me too Anyway sweet dreams
Karin (8/18/2009 10:06:08 PM): you too!!! 'nite!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:06:21 PM): Nite!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:06:32 PM): xo
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:06:46 PM): Mmm
Karin (8/18/2009 10:06:55 PM): mmm - indeed!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:07:11 PM): < g >
Karin (8/18/2009 10:07:29 PM): I don't want to go...but need my beauty sleep...lol
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:08:09 PM): What if I just come snuggle. I won't bother you otherwise
Karin (8/18/2009 10:08:35 PM): okay - one more kiss & I'm gone - snuggle would feel so nice!!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:09:05 PM): But then I'd wanna start kissing down your back
Karin (8/18/2009 10:09:23 PM): now I have goose bumps & you're not even here!!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:09:53 PM): From your neck down to your ankles
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:10:16 PM): Could I kiss every inch?
Karin (8/18/2009 10:10:20 PM): I love it!!! I'll be kissing you as well, so be prepared...
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:11:07 PM): Mm mm
Karin (8/18/2009 10:11:24 PM): uh-huh...good night dear!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:11:44 PM): Ill let you go
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:11:56 PM): N go dream of holding you
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:12:08 PM): Nite hon!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:12:11 PM): like I said I don't want to go - but let's play more tomorrow??!!! 'nite!!
Jeff (8/18/2009 10:12:38 PM): Of course! Nite!
Karin (8/18/2009 10:12:43 PM): :)
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