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Thursday, September 24, 2009
Karin (9/24/2009 8:31:25 AM): Morning Handsome!! Was thinking about restraints this morning...and you...lol
Later...
Jeff (9/24/2009 2:43:54 PM): Hiya...You and those darn restraints...!! Actually sounds pretty interesting to me...as you probably know...< g > ...I'm not sure that I'll have a chance to pop on after 4, but Ill try to circle back at my earliest opportunity...
I thought it t was curious that I had not heard from Jeff for over a week, but unlike my first blog I'm going state what happened during this week of no communication. Bringing the hindsight to the forefront. Although these are events that I was not aware of until the end of April of 2010. Since that fateful day at the end of April, I've also discovered that he had been seeing yet another woman during this entire time.
So here he is, Jeff I mean, engaged to be married and seeing two women on the side. If he were a woman I could call him a slut, but let's make up a word for him right now...I'll call him a "slutter" I think that men of his ilk deserve a new term.
It was during this time that Jeff got married to Karen with an "e." Now on October 5, 2009, just returned from his wedding, reception, and honeymoon he decides to drop me a line. It's unbelievable to me what a coward he was (sorry, IS). This would have been the perfect time to tell me that he had gotten married but instead I got the "mush-mouthed" excuse that you will read below. Keep in mind that I had no idea that he'd gotten married nor any clue that he had yet another girlfriend bedazzled with his wily charms. What a piece of work...
Monday, October 5, 2009
Jeff (10/5/2009 10:43:58 AM): Hey Karin...I'm sorry that I've been so unresponsive lately...Just been very busy...and then haven't been sure what to say, when I have had a moment or 2...I think you've mused on a couple occasions as to what I thought I'd find with you. I really wasnt sure...I suppose I was hoping for some sort of epiphany that would clearly light the way for me to either leave my current situation...or stay in it... Unfortunately, while it was terrific to hang out with you...I don't think that epiphany came...It really just pointed up to me that I'm a long way from ending things in the other situation...And more convinced than ever that an affair isn't something that would leave either of us very happy...I suppose I need to decide what's happening in other situation, before involving anyone else...
I'm not sure why he married Karen with an "e" but I do feel sorry for her at this juncture (present time). It seems to me that he needed a housekeeper and someone to buy his drugs for him, and she did both for him like a good wifey (who I still only knew to be a girlfriend)...and despite his protestations throughout my relationship with him -that he was getting no sex from her- at the end (April 2010), she claimed that he was also having sex with her...although the way she put it "he's sleeping with others" was a very true statement on her part.
But Let's continue on with the dialog...
Karin (10/5/2009 10:59:55 AM): Hey there...you still around? I would really like to talk with you...On one hand I am quite angry with you for putting me through all of this craziness...and on the other hand...I do like you as a person and would not mind staying in touch, but on a friendship basis. I'm still not sure about the epiphany that you were looking for, in particular since you do not actually believe in a lasting love (my evaluation).
Karin (10/5/2009 11:22:25 AM): So, here's another big evaluation, I believe that you are quite happy where you are and perhaps you should try working on making that relationship more of what you would like. There are evidently things in your current situation that you are content with...and it's always better to be wealthy and miserable, than poor and miserable.
Later...
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:38:25 PM): Hi...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:38:32 PM): hi there!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:38:44 PM): How are you today..?
Karin (10/5/2009 2:39:06 PM): I'm very well! and you? you feeling better (emotionally)??
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:39:02 PM): I guess...! < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:39:28 PM): I'm sorry this was such a drag for you
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:39:20 PM): It wasnt a drag...at all...
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:39:44 PM): I just didnt enjoy...the sneaking part...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:40:11 PM): we can be friends...but I'm ok if that does not work for you
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:40:07 PM): friends is great...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:40:56 PM): good!! you are fun for me to chat with, have a great sense of humor...and I KNOW that I'm pretty funny...lol
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:41:29 PM): YOU are funny...! < g >
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:42:05 PM): but again...it was and is very tempting to get more involved with you...but...probably not that wise...for either of us...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:42:52 PM): yes, well, I guess not for you, I did not have that much to lose...other than hurt feelings
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:42:48 PM): well...I wasnt relishing hurting your feelings..!!
Karin (10/5/2009 2:43:54 PM): yeah, well...I'm fine, and as I said once before "too late for me, save yourself"...
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:44:08 PM): good...Im glad...I really didnt mean to cause you headaches...and didnt mean to avoid your questions and comments...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:44:42 PM): let's just be friends, I may be a bit bawdy at times, but I'll try to be good...it's just a part of my humor...at times
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:45:01 PM): and I may be a bit desirous of you and your bawdiness at times...!! < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:45:34 PM): ha!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:45:14 PM): but...that's just me...and Ill try to be good..!! < g
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:46:26 PM): believe me...I have several times over the last week or so...been on the verge of writing..."put on that black lacy thing, and Ill be over in 45 minutes.."!!!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:46:35 PM): < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:47:23 PM): yeah, well, one never knows!!! you should work on your existing relationship!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:47:08 PM): I am...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:47:45 PM): I'll leave that Dec 31st...open for you...:}...after that...
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:47:43 PM): if you dont have other boy-toys that you prefer that night...< g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:48:55 PM): No, I'm not just referring to that night, I mean to say that if you ever resolve anything before then, you can call me for a potential relationship, after Dec 31st...I think I'll turn into a pumpkin... :}
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:49:30 PM): well...you'll probably have many different possibilities between now and then...and even if not...no pumpkin as of 1/1/10...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:50:41 PM): you are right, but I've held out from those different possibilities for the last 15 years - with or without the convent...lol...it's not as though I did not date...I just did not sleep w/anyone
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:50:50 PM): why is the thought of sneaking in to see you in a convent...such a sexy one..?? < g >
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:51:01 PM): that's my new fantasy...!! < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:51:43 PM): hmm...because it is a sexy thought??
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:51:38 PM): it is...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:52:01 PM): I'll either be baking bread or making wine...
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:51:55 PM): do they allow you to wear sexy black lacy things there..?? < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:52:38 PM): Sure...after all it’s my very own private convent...lol...I wear whatever I like!!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:52:41 PM): I wanna worship there..!! < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 2:53:13 PM): should have given you some of my homemade brew...it's unbelievably good!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:53:22 PM): I might not have left then...tho...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:53:48 PM): about 20 years ago, I made some plum and cherry port, that is truly amazing...but only one bottle left. I plan on opening it if I even get married again ...Ha!...lol
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:53:56 PM): wow....quite the vintner...!
Karin (10/5/2009 2:54:52 PM): baking bread is a lot of fun too...very tactile
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:55:24 PM): Ive always wanted to learn to bake bread...never really took the time to do that...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:56:31 PM): yes, it's pretty much an all-day process...for good bread. I usually start it the night before
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:56:31 PM): it's a nice hobby...
Karin (10/5/2009 2:57:39 PM): I like to bake for other people...try to avoid the carbs myself, I also make the European style layer cakes
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:58:20 PM): all sound very good...although I need to watch my carbs too...and my not so girlish figure..!!
Karin (10/5/2009 2:59:14 PM): yeah, same here...but I'm doing well toward my year end plan
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:59:08 PM): great...wish I could say that...
Karin (10/5/2009 3:00:08 PM): you don't have much to lose!!
Jeff (10/5/2009 2:59:56 PM): enough...believe me...
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:00:09 PM): I do need to tone up...and would like to do that...this fall...
Karin (10/5/2009 3:00:36 PM): ah...I'd say you were pretty close to perfect
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:00:40 PM): you must have had a bit too much to drink...last time we were together..!! < g >
Karin (10/5/2009 3:01:09 PM): yes, toning is a good thing...now that we are just friends, I could tell you what actually prompted me to get fit...but it's too long to go into right now...
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:01:19 PM): oh...k...
Karin (10/5/2009 3:01:48 PM): it's time for me to wrap up things here and head out the door
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:01:41 PM): very good...glad we caught up...
Karin (10/5/2009 3:02:40 PM): k - until next time then!!
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:02:27 PM): safe trip home...!
Karin (10/5/2009 3:02:56 PM): thanks - you too!
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:02:43 PM): thanks...!
Karin (10/5/2009 3:03:18 PM): bye! (babe!! - ha!)
Jeff (10/5/2009 3:03:12 PM): bye....(babe ha...to you..< g >..)
Karin (10/5/2009 3:03:39 PM): ;}
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More tomorrow…
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