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Chapter 6 - Part 2 - November 3, 2009

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Another get-together...
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Yes, I'm publishing early this week - I'm planning a hot New Years celebration! ;)

Today's Narrative: 
I watched a program on TV (TLC) about people who cheat on their spouses and was shocked to see the statistics. Aside from the 50% divorce rate, which I think is pretty common knowledge, evidently one out of every four married people cheat on their spouses - both men and women. Two couples were highlighted in this program. The wives of both couples were the ones who cheated on their husbands. During the program, statistics were given every so often and one of those statistics was that 60% of married women said they would cheat if they knew they would not get caught. They also said every person who cheats is narcissistic (the one thing that Jeff knew about himself). 

All of this information makes me wonder why anyone gets married at all. (Those of us who do not cheat are clearly a minority.) I can only speculate that many people cannot and do not communicate very well with their spouses. Does this mean that the majority of married couples are living lives of quiet desperation? To me, that seems like a horrible existence...it's like waiting to die. By that I mean if we are just waiting for things to happen -or for them to end in some manner- we are simply waiting for this life to be over with. Men and women need to take a look at their lives, to make their existence better. When we are truly in love, we also desire to enhance the lives of our partners, we want to be happy and we also want those around us to be happy. Life, in general, is difficult enough as it is for us not to desire a little bliss and something meaningful in some area of our existence. 

After my debacle with Jeff ended I was not sure he had a conscience. I contemplated that fact with a bit more intensity after I discovered that he was having multiple affairs while engaged to be married, during the planning period for his wedding, and then continuing on with his duplicitous behavior after his union with Karen with an "e." (duplicitous: marked by deliberate deceptiveness especially by pretending one set of feelings and acting under the influence of another; intentional deceptiveness; double-dealing.)  

Actually, at this point in time, I believe that his protestations of not being able to get away from this woman -who turned out to be his wife- were nothing more than statements to ease his own conscience. Perhaps he thought that by declaring his lack of love in that relationship that it was for him some sort of excusable escape from the reality of his true actions. I know he hurt at least two innocent people as a result of his nefarious dealings, and unless he and his wife are living in some sort of open marriage, it's likely he hurt his wife as well. But, after comparing notes with another woman that he pulled into his tangled "affair" web, things became a little clearer to me. He spends his free time smoking pot and she (the wife) evidently downs a bottle of wine every evening. Perhaps that's how they manage to stand each other from one day to the next...numbed to the reality of their existence. How pathetic!

I still find it pretty darn amusing that Jeff thought that I had betrayed him and his trust when he was the only one with betrayal in his soul. He had concluded, and convinced his wife, that I was the person who had hurt them both! (Unbelievable!!) He has betrayed every woman in his life, I think that it's likely that he has even betrayed his own children with his lies. He is, after all, an excellent manipulator. 

Tuesday, November 3, 2009 
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:29:26 AM): Mornin, missy...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:29:46 AM): Hello!!  ...how are you today?
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:30:10 AM): Good...on this bright, sun-shiney day...How bout you..?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:30:48 AM): Very well! Have not been outside yet...looks beautiful...I'm waiting for the frost to go away..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:31:16 AM): Yeah...a bit crisp...But, not too terrible...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:31:38 AM): Yeah, I love this weather.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:31:57 AM): yep......beats what's comin.!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:32:21 AM): it certainly does...Autumn and Spring are my favorite seasons
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:33:14 AM): yep......cause we can play golf..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:33:37 AM): You golfers!!...lol...Although I think I could live in a place like Costa Rica no problem.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:34:00 AM): do they have golf courses..?? the human spirit can't exist without golf..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:34:34 AM): Ha! Yes, not only do they have golf, but their healthcare well exceeds that of the U.S. (general stats)
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:34:56 AM): who cares about healthcare....how are their greens...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:35:39 AM): lol...I think you'd likely be impressed with their greens...they have multiple climates...and greens to match.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:35:52 AM): poifect...!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:36:03 AM): yes!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:36:09 AM): can I visit you when you move there...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:36:16 AM):  :)
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:36:28 AM): can I bring my clubs..?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:36:29 AM): hmmmm...maybe....
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:36:47 AM): pretty please..?? < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:37:05 AM): okay...since you put it that way...!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:37:24 AM): yes..!! Im making my reservations...!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:37:49 AM): alright...do I need to send you a calendar of events??
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:38:31 AM): hmmm...do you think Id be bored there...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:39:07 AM): nope, I guarantee you will not be bored...!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:39:25 AM): will you be wearing skimpy island attire..??
Karin (11/3/2009 9:39:40 AM): Yes, I will...:)
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:39:58 AM): no boredom here, then...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:40:13 AM): would be like B+P ALL the time...! I think I'd love that.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:40:35 AM): you wouldnt be the only one luvin it...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:41:10 AM): ...and you?...what will you be wearing my dear...hmmmmm???
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:41:25 AM): a thong..?? lol
Karin (11/3/2009 9:41:41 AM): lol...ok, that works for me...!!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:41:59 AM): nah...I think you'd just be laughing all the time..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:42:17 AM): oh, come on...please..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:42:39 AM): although, laughter is good...no...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:43:08 AM): yes, it is very good...you could wear a grass wrap over if you like...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:43:23 AM): like a sarong..?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:43:23 AM): can you hula???
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:43:37 AM): I can...I do remember at the age of about 10....
Karin (11/3/2009 9:43:38 AM): a sarong, or a grass skirt...yes???
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:43:52 AM): I tried to set the world's hula hoop record...and...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:44:15 AM): pulled my stomach muscle so badly, had to go to doctor's and he prescribed some awful liquid medicine..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:44:22 AM): have a distinct recollection..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:44:46 AM): omg...so you did not set the record huh? wonder what the medicine was....
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:45:23 AM): I think I fell a few spins short..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:45:27 AM): yeah...I dont know...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:46:14 AM): funny!!...my sister & I were avid hula hoopers...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:46:31 AM): I challenge you..!!!!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:47:02 AM): alright, but I'm guessing that you may win at this point...do I get to practice for a few weeks?
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:47:17 AM): I think I need practice more than you...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:47:55 AM): last time I had a hula hoop around my middle was about 15 years or so ago...I could still do it, but not for too long
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:48:25 AM): yeah...well...I concede that you're the winner...so we don't hurt ourselves..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:48:42 AM): whew...!!! I was "sweating" that one...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:49:12 AM): you're the winner and still champion..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:49:20 AM): do you play croquet?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:49:30 AM): YEA for me!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:49:49 AM): I have played croquet...tho, not for many years...I kinda enjoyed it..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:50:42 AM): Yes, I like croquet...I used to have an annual game out here...each player got their own bottle of champagne and a mallet...lol...it was pretty wild
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:51:23 AM): sounds like fun...I was in a place in Florida last fall called Boca Grande...on the west coast...had a beautiful croquet field where I stayed..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:51:36 AM): the Gasparilla Inn...nice place...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:51:44 AM): Do you remember the county?
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:52:04 AM): near Fort Myers...but dont remember the county...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:52:40 AM): I used to live in Pinellas County
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:53:13 AM): my friends from college grew up in Pinellas County...I think..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:53:39 AM): I had a lot of fun when I was there, but it's pretty transient
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:54:15 AM): my college roommate moved to Treasure Island...in St. Pete, after college...Lived right on the ocean...Wonderful place..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:54:22 AM): he grew up in Tampa...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:54:43 AM): Yeah!! That's very cool, I had friends in that area too...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:55:22 AM): actually had 2 friends from Tampa...fratty club brothers of mine...one was a college roomie...the other a law school roomie..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:56:08 AM): Tampa is interesting too, some of the old homes down in St. Pete are fantastic..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:56:57 AM): I still am in touch with both guys...still very close with the law school roomie...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:57:35 AM): It's nice to stay close with your past friends. After I moved back up here, I swore that I was never going to move out of my longitude and latitude again
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:58:23 AM): yeah...Ive got 3-4 high school buddies here in Cleve that Im pretty close with...and 3-4 buds from college...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:59:37 AM): very nice...I can't make the same claim...although there are a few women that I would not mind re-connecting with
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:59:56 AM): me too...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 10:00:09 AM): Ha!...funny!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:00:28 AM): that's probably their reaction... too..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:00:40 AM): Nah!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:01:00 AM): Maybe I could get an endorsement, from you...?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:01:13 AM): it depends...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:01:25 AM): on..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:01:46 AM): what type of endorsement you'd want...sorry, I can be selfish...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:03:14 AM): hmmm...I think I like your selfishness..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:03:57 AM): but, I would say that you were charming...maybe...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:04:22 AM): awwww...thanks, dear...! Do I hafta make endorsements to your beaus, too..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:05:19 AM): Nope...(I could say a number of things here, but suffice it to say that there's only a single beau that I'd like...)
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:06:08 AM): Thanks for not saying more...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 10:06:32 AM):  I am a singularly focused woman..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:06:47 AM): Good...< g >...So, what's going on in town today..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:07:04 AM): Not much...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:07:28 AM): a day of leisure...huh..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:07:38 AM): just lounging around...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:08:22 AM): would you like some company this PM..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:08:38 AM): YES...would love some company!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:09:09 AM): Yes..!! Well...I was going to shoot to try to get out of here around 2:30...
Karin (11/3/2009 10:09:27 AM): great...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:09:40 AM): I guess "shoot to try"...is redundant... Sorry...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:09:55 AM): How can I make it up to you..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:10:09 AM): I can think of a few ways....
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:10:13 AM): I hate to waste your time with redundancies...!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:10:29 AM): sometimes redundancy is a good thing...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:10:41 AM): try...tho probably not "shoot to try"...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:10:47 AM): true...not try..
Karin (11/3/2009 10:10:53 AM): no, but, to achieve perfection...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:11:13 AM): Im just shooting for mediocrity... personally...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:11:24 AM): that would be huge step up..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:11:47 AM): huh!!?? ...Simon says "Take a giant step!"
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:12:02 AM): I was never good at that game....
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:12:26 AM): anyway...Im gonna throw myself back into the stuff on my desk......but...plan to head your way this aft...
Karin (11/3/2009 10:12:29 AM): I see...but you said that you take instruction well...??
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:12:45 AM): depends on the instructress..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:13:03 AM): ok...we'll have to work on that - back to work for you then..!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:13:35 AM): I did bring my medical marijuana with me... will you be offended if I wanna take puff puff at your place...??
Karin (11/3/2009 10:13:49 AM): Nope...did I appear offended before?
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:13:59 AM): you're so good to me...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:14:11 AM): I wasnt sure if you were clenching your teeth tightly last time..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:14:17 AM): I know...I'll always be good to you!!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:14:28 AM): No teeth clenching here...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:14:39 AM): k....good......
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:14:59 AM): I will circle back at some point, just to update you on status...etc....
Karin (11/3/2009 10:15:13 AM): catch you later then
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:15:26 AM): k...have fun this AM, dear...talk to you in a bit...
Karin (11/3/2009 10:15:36 AM): k...you too!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:15:46 AM): bye..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:15:49 AM): bye!
Later...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:12:24 PM): Hello, young lady....Everything seems to still be on track...! So, still planning on exiting here around 2:30....
Later...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:31:28 PM): Hi...great! Can't wait..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:31:41 PM): Are you back..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:31:48 PM): I am...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:32:33 PM): You know...my day is much more pleasant when I know Im leaving for a get together I look forward to, at 2:30...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:33:19 PM): lol...mine too!! Did you have lunch yet?
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:33:53 PM): I did have a bite...you want me to bring you something..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:34:05 PM): no, I'm good here, but thanks!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:34:54 PM): anything your little heart desired..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:35:16 PM): My little heart desires to see you...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:35:32 PM): awww...mine desires to see you, too...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:35:59 PM): or is that feel you?? hmmm...you are wonderful!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:36:26 PM): whichever...!!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:37:01 PM): right...get what you need to do done...and come on down...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:37:15 PM): yes'm...!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:37:18 PM): :)
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:37:58 PM): you are so domineering with me..!!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:38:31 PM): You think...It's for your own good!! lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:38:58 PM): what is for my own good..?? when you handcuff me and lead me away..?? < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:39:11 PM): That's right...! Everything I do for you...is for your good ...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:39:36 PM): yes, ma'am...Id like another...!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:39:59 PM): good answer...lol...(kiss)
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:40:22 PM): mmmm... I wasnt even sure what "another" I was getting.......!!! I like that one..!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:40:50 PM): well any "another" from me will be good for you...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:41:20 PM): again, yes ma'am.....!!! Not tooo much pain tho...k..??
Karin (11/3/2009 12:41:47 PM): Nah, I would never do anything to really hurt you...maybe just a playful "ouch"...!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:42:29 PM): tit for tat..?? < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:42:41 PM): yes...tit for tat..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:43:16 PM): so to speak...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:43:30 PM): right...uh-huh..!...what is a tat?
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:43:57 PM): I was gonna ask for the whole phrase to be explained...< g >
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:44:53 PM): dont give me a definition that's gonna make me blush...!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:45:55 PM): ummm...well, tit - of course... we all know about slang: female breast / or hussey
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:46:23 PM): seeee..!! you made me blush..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:46:48 PM): Ooops!!! ...sorry...I forget how shy you are!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:47:13 PM): sigh.........
Karin (11/3/2009 12:47:18 PM): I think it's basically this for that...sigh, indeed..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:48:06 PM): yep...this for that..is how I'd define it...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:48:13 PM): like quid pro quo...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:48:42 PM): yes...or perhaps a guide of "what for what" is an equal exchange...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:49:55 PM): I think I prefer the latter...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:50:19 PM): k...not sure if I'll have that ready by the time you get here...improvisation may be required...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:51:00 PM): I have great faith in your improvisational skills..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:51:17 PM): thank you dear...and I of yours!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:51:52 PM): but...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:51:56 PM): yes..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:52:21 PM): I ruined my little black dress...:)...got a drop of bleach on the elbow...very sad...I'll have to get another...I love that dress...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:53:15 PM): aww...that's too bad...but...I'll take you in any attire available...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:53:27 PM): thank goodness..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:53:49 PM): yep...we can save the little black dress for a special occasion...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:54:17 PM): okay!...I've actually got another little black dress...just for you..!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:54:54 PM): wow....of course...again that could be saved for special occasion too...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:55:43 PM): yes, it is very nice, low cut...have some great black heels to go with...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:55:56 PM): yummy....< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:56:26 PM): did I send you a pic from the wedding that I went to a few weeks ago?...had my little brown dress on...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:56:45 PM): I dont think so....?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:56:51 PM): you want it?
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:57:03 PM): sure...!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:57:27 PM): can you see it?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:57:35 PM): my goofy smile..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:58:09 PM): I can see it...Smile is fine...Though can't see much of dress..!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:58:41 PM): nah...I cropped the pic...my neighbor had his arm around me...ugh! I like my neighbor's...just not that close to me...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:59:08 PM): lol..
Karin (11/3/2009 12:59:23 PM): I could show you the entire pic...but then...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:59:29 PM): yes..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:59:43 PM):not sure what I'd have to do to you after...:)
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:00:09 PM): still sounds interesting...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:00:34 PM): Ha!...I may need consolation...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:00:51 PM): for what..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:01:06 PM): being that close to my neighbor...or the thought of it...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:01:47 PM): ah....well..you can bury your head on my shoulder...if you become overcome with...revulsion..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:02:25 PM): Thank you!! ...I'll show you the whole pic when you get here...you'll notice my body language...lol...sorry, I need to be nice now.
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:03:14 PM): nah....we can be catty about your neighbor...I dont mind..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:04:08 PM): Thanks!!...He is an idiot at times...there have, literally been years when I did not speak to him for some of the boneheaded things that he has done...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:04:38 PM): hmmm...well...again...I dont think Im gonna chastise you for that...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:04:52 PM): you are so forgiving...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:05:22 PM): I try...(although I do expect some gratitude in response..< g >..)
Karin (11/3/2009 1:05:28 PM): enough about the neighbors...Back to me and you...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:05:39 PM): yes, dear...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:05:47 PM): What kind of gratitude do you have in mind...???
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:06:10 PM): I was gonna leave it to your very creative mind...!!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:06:23 PM): sometimes I can be overly grateful...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:06:56 PM): I think Im gonna enjoying eliciting gratitude from you..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:07:04 PM): you may have to tell me "enough" ...lol...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:07:27 PM): maybe...maybe not...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:07:37 PM): lol...you are giving me goose bumps again...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:04 PM): and you might be telling me “enough” at times too...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:08:23 PM): Nah...I seriously doubt that...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:36 PM): you are a such a sweetie...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:41 PM): in all seriousness..
Karin (11/3/2009 1:08:41 PM): :) thanks...I think you are too..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:57 PM): why am I sitting around here
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:09:03 PM): thanks...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:09:13 PM): yeah...I don't know...!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:09:35 PM): well...Ill try to get out before too terribly long...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:10:02 PM): the sooner, the better I say..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:10:49 PM): yeah...just finish off a couple things here...and then steal off into the night..!!!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:11:00 PM): alright...!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:11:46 PM): So...do you need me to pick up some wine...or alky haulic beverage..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:12:02 PM): no...I think I have everything here...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:12:04 PM): Not to presume that you're gonna join me for drink...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:12:16 PM): I am going to join you!! are we having wine...or Bloody Mary's?
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:13:13 PM): up to you...although, I do have cream colored sweater on....BM's could be dangerous...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:13:51 PM): well, I guess the same could be said about the red wine...need a bib? ...or you could take your sweater off ;)
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:14:24 PM): what if I get cold..??
Karin (11/3/2009 1:14:35 PM): I'll keep you warm...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:15:00 PM): then let's do the BMs or red wine..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:15:20 PM): Ha! ...Okay, good idea..! lol
Karin (11/3/2009 1:15:47 PM): I'm gonna make you decide when you get here...something to occupy your mind on the drive...thinker that you are...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:16:26 PM): you mean decide on wine or Bloody Mary's..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:16:32 PM): Yep
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:17:01 PM): k...right now...I think Im in mood for wine...probably cause I threw down a few Bloody Mary's last night..!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:17:13 PM): wine works for me too
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:17:33 PM): but...I could go both ways...!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:17:54 PM): oh NO!!! ...lol... I may have to make this decision on my own ..!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:18:10 PM): whatever your little heart desires...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:18:25 PM): we'll figure this dilemma out yet...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:18:39 PM): one dilemma at a time...eh..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:19:07 PM): yes, I guess it's like baby steps...tho I do prefer the leaps and bounds...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:19:26 PM): k...Ill leap and bound around your kitchen...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:19:46 PM): alright...I'll get my camera ready...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:19:52 PM): before I forget...if I need to call...is it on XXX exchange..??
Karin (11/3/2009 1:20:04 PM): Yes
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:20:11 PM): yep...got it..
Karin (11/3/2009 1:20:16 PM): ok...come and get it...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:20:46 PM): I am looking forward to hanging out...!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:20:53 PM): me too!! I need to have a bite...(lunch, I mean)...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:22:03 PM): you go girl...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:22:16 PM): don't get lost..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:22:39 PM): I probably still have half hour or so here... yet...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:22:49 PM): yes...do you want to keep chatting...or do you need to wrap things up? work-wise, I mean
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:23:47 PM): why dont I do some wrapping...and then Ill IM you...when Im getting ready to roll...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:23:55 PM): good deal...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:24:04 PM): k...cya in a few...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:24:08 PM): k - 
Later...
Jeff (11/3/2009 2:28:23 PM): so much for my real early exit..!! < g >...but Im gonna leave now..!
Karin (11/3/2009 2:28:38 PM): now is good...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 2:28:52 PM): k...cya in a bit..!
Karin (11/3/2009 2:29:04 PM): drive carefully!
Jeff (11/3/2009 2:29:21 PM): yes, dear...!! bye..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 2:29:29 PM):  bye!
Later...
Karin (11/3/2009 6:11:18 PM): I know, I know...here I am with a message already..!
Karin (11/3/2009 6:13:38 PM): You did a couple of pretty wonderful things to me. I have a question for you...next time we are both online. Aside from when can we do that again...? Sigh...wish you had more time (... but you probably knew that statement was coming, eh?) Hmmm...have realized that the "deed and dash" has made me feel a tiny bit insecure...interesting phenomenon...
Later...
Jeff (11/3/2009 8:37:11 PM): Thank you for wonderful afternoon .
Jeff (11/3/2009 8:38:02 PM): I gotta do and dash again...Sorry talk to you tomorrow
Later...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:40:15 PM): Well, there you go then...tomorrow...Good Night..!
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More next Saturday…
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All characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.
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Friday, December 24, 2010

Holiday Message

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For those of you who celebrate this holiday, as I do, I wish you a very Merry Christmas! 

Be good, don't lie, don't cheat, work hard, eat less, move more...life will be good...
have a fabulous New Year!!

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Story continues next Saturday…
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All characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.
"The Jeffrey Chronicles: The Span of an Online Romance"  is available in hardcover, paperback and as an ebook (Kindle, etc.).
 
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Hardback; $34.99; 771 pages; 978-1-4535-0835-0
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Saturday, December 18, 2010

Chapter 6 - Part 1 - November 2, 2009

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Boo...!
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Today's Narrative:  
Isn't love wonderful? Some people can spend a lifetime searching for it and never find it. I'm talking about the kind of love that has a fire that never burns out. Sometimes this love burns
down to embers, smoldering away until there is an exchanged look or an innocent brush of a hand that sends the flames shooting hot and wild. I think most people do not understand or know how to keep this type of love alive. There are some definite talents required to maintain that sort of a relationship beginning with truly excellent communication. Love requires attention...and a little bit of work to keep one's desires up. 

When we stop having the required affinity and reality with our partners, well...all is lost in that love arena. Then all that we have is a roommate. I suppose that for some, a roommate is good enough (sadly so). I know a couple in their late 70's, maybe early 80's, who are still very much in love. They hold hands, they love to dance together - sometimes when there is no music playing. You can tell by the way that they look at each other that they still have "it." They've been married forever and although I'm sure that they've had their share of relationship hardships, they have "endured"... in a good way. How many people fit into that category these days? We've all seen people who have "endured" (not in a good way). Some, I think, have forgotten what love is and perhaps some have never even known what love is. Love is not something that one briefly encounters in life -that's infatuation.Oh well...

One of my girlfriends holds the philosophy that every man would cheat, given the opportunity. I'm not sure if that's true or not, and I also do not know if that applies to women...or not. I'm kind of the one man type of girl, but I also know the importance of keeping life exciting and the flames or romance kindled. But, I can only speak for myself. There certainly is a much ramped up excitement with each new relationship, but I'm also not sure if that's too much over a long period of time or not. Sometimes it's good to feel a bit settled in with a lover. I need to have that comfort and trust level in order to participate in some of the more wildly erotic activities that two people can experience, but I also know that's not true for everyone. 

When I discovered that Jeff had been having unprotected sex with numerous women, I made a beeline to my doctor's office. I wonder if he isn't concerned about bringing something "unwanted" home to the wifey. How on earth does such a "committed, loyal and faithful" man explain that away?  "It's not my fault hon, she made me have sex with her!! I was just an innocent 59-60 year old man!! I could not get away from her...all those times!"  Puh-leeze...!!  A truly "loyal" man would have not gotten so involved with other women...all the while planning a wedding...! Humph, whatever! Enough of my musing...lol...read on...  ;}
 
Monday, November 2, 2009 
Karin (11/2/2009 8:00:12 AM): Happy post Halloween...BOO!! ...did I scare the pants off of you..!!??
Later...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:32:03 AM): Boo back to you...........!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:32:22 AM): How was your weekend?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:32:32 AM): oops, pants just fell down! lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:32:51 AM): hold it right there...Im on my way...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:33:14 AM): k...it may take me a few minutes to get to the door w/pants around my ankles...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:33:42 AM): we should get to the door at same time, then..!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:33:57 AM): lol...yours around your ankles too?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:34:21 AM): hmmm...they could be...but...I have bit of a drive...too...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:34:32 AM): ah...yes! I may just have to "step" out of mine...for safety sake
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:35:07 AM): and I probably shouldnt drive with 'em down to my ankles...might be dangerous..
Karin (11/2/2009 9:35:37 AM): right!! & you certainly don't want to get stopped...that way!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:36:07 AM): depends who stops me...I might not mind..!!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:36:32 AM): ok...I'll be waiting for you on the bridge...to stop you
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:36:55 AM): Id rather you stop me at your door...or at least...frisk me..< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:37:33 AM): Yes!...a much better idea...frisking...may take me some time to frisk you...I have to be pretty thorough
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:38:05 AM): I guess if that's your official duty...Id hafta submit...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:38:18 AM): I may want to do a strip search...depending on what I find...lol...how's your day going?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:38:51 AM): better now...! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:39:07 AM): just came back from Twinsburg
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:39:09 AM): did we hafta stop the strip search..??? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:39:26 AM): nope, that strip search could take ALL day..! & I'll probably have to get really close to you...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:40:07 AM): I guess you hafta be very thorough...in your business....
Karin (11/2/2009 9:40:44 AM): yes indeed...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:41:16 AM): will you have your leather uniform on...??
Karin (11/2/2009 9:41:34 AM): ...and handcuffs...just in case you become unruly
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:42:34 AM): mmmmm...Im coming to be arrested..!!!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:43:23 AM): yes, until you pass the search...there are a few tests that you'll also need to pass before I let you go...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:43:54 AM): once Im in your custody...what choice do I have..!!??? < g >....so, what took you to Twinsburg...?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:44:11 AM): but this is like a Mexican jail...you may still not get out all that quickly! I had a follow up w/my doc...for last week’s fiasco
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:44:46 AM): and a jail where you have no choice but to submit to the jailers..?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:45:03 AM): yep, I'm pretty hard on my prisoners too!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:45:47 AM): mmmm...I might develop some fondness for my hard jailer-ette..!! < g >
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:45:58 AM): you know how that transference thing works..!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:46:09 AM): I DO know..! lots of stroking, kissing, maybe some wine...if you are good...and some bread...if you are REALLY good...!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:46:39 AM): I would probably hafta lick the wine off of wherever you left it for me....!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:47:05 AM): uh huh...that would be all over my body...!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:47:18 AM): can we play jailer - prisoner NOW...!!??? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:47:23 AM): I'm ready...!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:48:03 AM): mmmm...you know...I was gonna try to be all professional with you this AM...and not distract you from your work....Now Im just dying to be your prisoner...lol
Karin (11/2/2009 9:48:45 AM): Ha!...I took today off from work...have a bunch of vacation days that I need to use up b-4 year end
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:49:06 AM): ah...I see...so...Twinsburg was not for biz..?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:49:18 AM): Now I'd like you as my prisoner...nope not for biz
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:49:42 AM): when does my sentence...start..??? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:50:15 AM): I think that is has already started...I may have to put on my bounty hunter hat...and come get you...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:50:59 AM): mmm...could see being shackled and dragged off by you...at your mercy...!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:51:31 AM): yep..!! pretty frightening thought huh?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:51:45 AM): no...pretty delicious...I must say...!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:52:06 AM): sigh...for me too...so you're saying that I did not scare you...? :}
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:53:04 AM): well...you did scare my pants off...but...I tried to get respectable again for you..
Karin (11/2/2009 9:53:26 AM): lol...okay...respectable, eh?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:53:36 AM): I wouldnt want you thinking less of me..!!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:53:57 AM): WHY! ...I would NEVER...!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:54:17 AM): ok....then Ill remain with pants scared off..!! < g >
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:54:20 AM): brb...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:54:45 AM): you can keep them on till you see me & then I'll say BOO! ...but, maybe I should remain professional and not distract you from your work..???
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:56:32 AM): you're always professional...but...you still are a...good...distraction..!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 9:56:56 AM): I'd rather be a distraction for you...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:57:21 AM): Id rather be out there playing with you...right now..lol
Karin (11/2/2009 9:57:35 AM): you on your way...??
Karin (11/2/2009 10:02:18 AM): well...you've either gotten side-tracked...or ran out to your car and are driving here...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:03:18 AM): Im running there..!!!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:03:33 AM): I hafta do more than drive...to work off the frustration...!!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:03:48 AM): don't expend too much energy... you may need some when you get here..!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:04:12 AM): somehow...I think I'd be re-energized there...!
Karin (11/2/2009 10:04:45 AM): I'd do my best to help re-energize you...!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:05:03 AM): so...you're off today...??
Karin (11/2/2009 10:05:10 AM): yep...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:05:32 AM): Im jealous...so...how are you gonna entertain yourself...?
Karin (11/2/2009 10:06:12 AM): Maybe a bit of house cleaning...may just take it easy...it was a long weekend...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:06:23 AM): didja have fun..??
Karin (11/2/2009 10:06:44 AM): yes, had fun...you?
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:08:34 AM): yeah...it wasnt bad...party Friday was fine... not the most exciting crowd...but... plenty of food and drink..
Karin (11/2/2009 10:08:47 AM): good...what are you up to today?
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:09:11 AM): Some of us hafta work.....< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:09:24 AM): too bad!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:09:36 AM): although...I hate to think of you all alone there...bored out of your mind....< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:10:02 AM): I KNOW!!! ...just lounging around w/no one to talk to...sigh!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:10:48 AM): you know...just out of humanitarian impluses alone...I should check in and make sure you're ok..! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:11:10 AM): That would really be kind of you...! 
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:11:48 AM):I can be pretty kind...< g >... 
Karin (11/2/2009 10:12:01 AM): how kind?...you might have to console me...for being here all alone...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:12:29 AM): I would do my darndest...!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:12:42 AM): we'll see...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:13:34 AM): you know...I should really work my ass off today...but...now Im concerned that I should swing by at some point...and make sure you're ok..!
Karin (11/2/2009 10:14:34 AM): hmmm...up to you...:}...you know how lonely I can get...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:15:01 AM): Im not sure how I'd console you, tho..??
Karin (11/2/2009 10:15:40 AM): I can think of a few ways...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:16:03 AM): let me count the ways..?? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:16:09 AM): would have to start with a really big hug...and some kisses...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:17:32 AM): hmmm....well...that does sound like fun consolation..!! I'm just tryin to figure out whether I could really steal out of here today...
Karin (11/2/2009 10:18:15 AM): I'll be here...need to jump into the shower...but otherwise not going anywhere...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:18:26 AM): phone...
Karin (11/2/2009 10:18:40 AM): k
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:21:10 AM): sorry...where were we..?? you needing help in the shower..?????
Karin (11/2/2009 10:21:28 AM): yep...a little help would be MUCH appreciated...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:22:36 AM): be my pleasure...well... here's the deal, dear...If'n I was to get out your way...it probably wouldnt be before... like...3:30...or 4...so...would that screw up your day...?? and I'm not 100% sure quite yet whether I can even do that...but...wanted to see how that would work out, if I can align things...
Karin (11/2/2009 10:23:07 AM): that would be fine...give me time to clean my fridge AND shower...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:23:32 AM): I was gonna help with the shower...tho not necessarily the fridge...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:23:48 AM): have your way...I won't complain
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:24:18 AM): I have been thinking about having my way....!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:24:23 AM):  :} ok...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:25:01 AM): anyway...let me go get some stuff cleared off my desk...and I'll check back before lunch...and let you know how it looks..k...?
Karin (11/2/2009 10:25:22 AM): I'll keep my fingers crossed
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:25:49 AM): me too...be nice to see you...although...I didnt bring my pot with me today...how am I gonna be able to function..??
Karin (11/2/2009 10:26:20 AM): I'm not sure...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:26:31 AM): you may hafta loan me some alky haul-ic stuff...
Karin (11/2/2009 10:26:43 AM): yeah, got plenty of that here!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:27:01 AM): and you probably thought you'd have day to recuperate there, today..!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 10:27:11 AM): may have some myself...I was the designated driver this weekend...did not drink
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:27:46 AM): ah.....such a good girl..!
Karin (11/2/2009 10:27:57 AM): I know...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:28:12 AM): k..well..Im gonna run...Ill touch base in a bit...
Karin (11/2/2009 10:28:19 AM): k - later baby!
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:28:23 AM): bye hon...!
Later...
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:45:13 AM): Hiya...I see you're busy now...I'm running to meet old friend for lunch...Assuming that doesn't take too long, I should be able to come visit around 4 or so, today...if that works for you.....? The only potential problem is that the lunch may take longer than expected...But, I'll circle back after lunch and update you...
Karin (11/2/2009 11:45:43 AM): hello...have a nice lunch
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:45:52 AM): Hi...
Karin (11/2/2009 11:45:56 AM): hey
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:46:01 AM): yes...?
Karin (11/2/2009 11:46:07 AM): yes...
Karin (11/2/2009 11:46:24 AM): works for me...
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:47:05 AM): yep...But, also if something interesting surfaces for you...don't hesitate to take it up...We can get together later in week....k..?
Karin (11/2/2009 11:47:36 AM): yes, let me know...
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:48:35 AM): sounds good...I'll touch base apres le petit dejeuner...(I think that means breakfast..??
Karin (11/2/2009 11:49:11 AM): hope you can make it today...and later this week...:}
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:49:46 AM): k....well...I hope it's today too...so...I will let you know in a bit......bye..!!
Karin (11/2/2009 11:49:51 AM): you coming for breakfast too?
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:50:10 AM): Can I stay over, until breakfast..? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 11:50:16 AM): yes...can you???...then I could really have my way with you...
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:50:55 AM): hmmmm........sounds awfully nice...we'll hafta see on that one....!!
Karin (11/2/2009 11:51:12 AM): I know, I know...obstacles
Jeff (11/2/2009 11:51:37 AM): perhaps, a few....!! bye dear..!
Karin (11/2/2009 11:51:46 AM): ok...bye hon!
Later...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:24:46 PM): Hey...!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:24:53 PM): Hi!
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:25:09 PM): How ya doin..??
Karin (11/2/2009 2:25:18 PM): Very well, and you? How was lunch?
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:25:41 PM): It was fine...He's in pretty good spirits... Staying positive..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:26:06 PM): that's always a good thing, I don't know much about thyroid cancer... ??? Is there treatment available?
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:26:45 PM): I don't either...I have heard that it can be among the more treatable...So, my fingers are crossed..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:27:01 PM): Yes, good. Hey, I keep meaning to ask you, how's your dad doing?
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:28:22 PM): he's doin ok...thanks...still not back to where he was before he went into hospital last month...but...hopefully that will come..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:28:48 PM): yeah, aging & all associated with it can be difficult
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:29:13 PM): yeah...plus having to deal with his wife...is not my cup of tea..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:29:26 PM): ah...right...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:30:40 PM): anyway, dear...there is a bit too much going on here yet this afternoon for me to steal away at a decent hour... unfortunately...I can try to get away tomorrow afternoon..if that works for you..?
Karin (11/2/2009 2:31:17 PM): sure, tomorrow would be nice...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:31:44 PM): yeah...I just have a couple of things that still need attention here...Wish I could get away...believe me…
Karin (11/2/2009 2:32:07 PM): come for lunch...stay for breakfast...lol...wish you could as well...but...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:32:33 PM): I would like to do all of the above...
Karin (11/2/2009 2:32:36 PM): Work, work...someone has to do it...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:32:54 PM): yeah... unfortunately, me...today..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:32:56 PM): I may be having some side contract work coming my way...we'll see
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:33:11 PM): yeah...?? something good..?
Karin (11/2/2009 2:33:42 PM): maybe...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:34:00 PM): great...!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:36:25 PM): yes, so what excitement (work) is up your sleeve today?
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:37:26 PM): first task is to re-do a client's Buy-Sell Agreement, and corporate records...and then hafta do some clients' Wills...What will you do rest of PM..?
Karin (11/2/2009 2:38:24 PM): Maybe BOB? (j/k) I want to take the dog out for a walk and maybe a movie
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:39:09 PM): I dont blame you...< g >...I was hoping to have my own BOB type interlude yesterday afternoon... but...never really had the time to do that....!!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:39:34 PM): ??? BOB interlude ??? please explain...a man BOB?...or taking things into your own hands? ...I'm confused....
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:40:11 PM): yes, dear...< g >
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:40:36 PM): I just meant ..."relieving some frustrations" ...as you might with BOB..!!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:40:39 PM): aha...I get you now...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:41:07 PM): but, if I was home alone this aft...I might take such an interlude..!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:41:37 PM): huh, well too bad you are not here...we might have a combined adventure...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:42:09 PM): much better relief that way...Im sure..!!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:42:30 PM): I believe so...and a warm body to boot!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:42:46 PM): are you cold..??
Karin (11/2/2009 2:43:11 PM): hum...typically, I'm pretty damn warm!
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:43:26 PM): I certainly think so...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 2:43:49 PM): I have my own internal furnace...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:44:16 PM): I think your furnace would certainly warm you up..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:44:28 PM): I was thinking about warming you up..!
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:44:42 PM): me up....I meant....!!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:44:49 PM): good!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:45:04 PM): sorry...
Karin (11/2/2009 2:45:11 PM): ?? did you burp?...need me to pat your back??
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:46:11 PM): sure...! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 2:46:24 PM): ok...come here please...I'll help
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:46:48 PM): awww...< g >...you don't know how that entices me when you say that...isn't that kinda funny..??
Karin (11/2/2009 2:47:25 PM): I find you enticing & you don't even need to say anything...I must say...I do want you here...or anywhere...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:48:12 PM): well... I feel the same about you.......I wish I could be there...believe me... it's still tempting to run out there...!! I just dont know that we'd have much time today...
Karin (11/2/2009 2:48:36 PM): here kitty, kitty...I have treats for you...lol. I understand...if you have things to do, you should take care of them...I think...or me...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:49:34 PM): hmmm...would much prefer to take care of you...believe me..!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:49:36 PM): teasing...yes, I could use some "taking care of"...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:49:53 PM): were you offering catnip there...?
Karin (11/2/2009 2:50:10 PM): sure...or something else...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:51:19 PM): it's all intriguing..!
Karin (11/2/2009 2:51:43 PM): lol...well, don't let me distract you...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:52:42 PM): well...perhaps I should focus on my stuff here...if Im gonna have chance of getting out tomorrow..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:53:08 PM): Yes, work hard...so we can have time to play...
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:53:54 PM): yes, dear....will do.....I will try to pop back on before end of day...
Karin (11/2/2009 2:54:25 PM): k...I'll reappear around 4:30...?
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:54:37 PM): sounds good...Ill look for you then..
Karin (11/2/2009 2:54:46 PM): later lover...?!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 2:54:57 PM): yes, lover..!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 2:55:01 PM): :} bye
Later...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:14:22 PM): K - I guess that you are busy (I know, a wild assumption!)...lol...I'll be online tonight, if I don't bump into you then...have a good night!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:21:05 PM): Sorry, dear...I did get tied up here...I will try to pop online between 9 and 10 to see what you're up to...if I can...Hope you're having nice evening..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:22:34 PM): you still here?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:22:56 PM): yep.....you...?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:23:04 PM): was putting something in the oven for dinner
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:23:20 PM): berry good..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:23:30 PM): you need to run now?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:23:56 PM): nope...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:24:04 PM): oh...goodie!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:24:18 PM): you have me all to yourself...sort of..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:24:34 PM): hmmm...just the way I like it..!!! Did you get much done today?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:24:55 PM): not as much as Id like...of course... but...will take some home..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:25:12 PM): yes, work is never ending...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:25:29 PM): indeed...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:25:38 PM): I contacted the guy for the contract work and will talk with him on Wednesday...to see what he's got
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:25:54 PM): good.......good luck there..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:26:13 PM): yeah, thanks...an extra ga-zillion bucks is always good...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:26:34 PM): it doesnt hurt...then you can maintain me as your cabana boy..!!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:27:01 PM): indeed...would love to have you as my cabana boy!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:27:19 PM): would love to so serve..!! < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:27:47 PM): I’ll have to make sure that you can give a proper massage...oil me up..!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:28:14 PM): phone....
Karin (11/2/2009 5:28:18 PM): k
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:29:29 PM): break out the oil....!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:29:55 PM): yipiee!!! off the phone?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:30:14 PM): yep.....!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:30:36 PM): good...so, what's your pleasure? ask, and yee shall receive...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:31:00 PM): mine..? you mean, right this second..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:31:05 PM): yes....
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:31:38 PM): hmmm...a back rub...or foot massage...sound pretty decent right now..!!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:32:18 PM): okay...I'd like to begin with the foot massage...it seems to get the rest of the body relaxed for the rest of the body massage...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:32:43 PM): mmmmm...I havent had foot massage in 150 years....and I do love 'em..!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:33:22 PM): You should let me give you one...the other thing that is really great is a hand massage...almost as amazing as a foot massage...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:34:03 PM): yeah....I like those too..!! < g >....a hand massage can be pretty erotic...actually....!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:34:29 PM): indeed it can...maybe I'll have to start with the hands...but...your choice...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:35:04 PM): wow....< g >....where to start..!!??
Karin (11/2/2009 5:35:30 PM): I know...!!! If you can't choose...I'll have to choose for you...hang on...have to go turn the chicken (under broiler)
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:36:02 PM): I like when you choose.. < g >... Although, I like also being able to weigh in on the decision...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:36:04 PM): k..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:36:33 PM): back
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:36:38 PM): k......
Karin (11/2/2009 5:37:01 PM): I think I'd go feet first...then hands... then...then I can look into your eyes when I'm doing your hands...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:38:05 PM): mmmm.....you'd have me pretty putty like...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:38:31 PM): that's the idea...putty in my hands...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:38:57 PM): Id be promising about anything in return...I suspect...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:39:17 PM): hmmmm...wonder what I should ask for...??!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:39:38 PM): you'll hafta see what mood you're in...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:39:48 PM): maybe you'll just want me to walk the dog..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:40:17 PM): well, only if I can go too...it's probably more for my benefit than the dogs...lol...but...dog walking was not what I had in mind...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:40:47 PM): ah.....just a guess on my part...!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:41:12 PM): lol...not a terrible guess...I guess!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:41:28 PM): Im just getting to know you..!
Karin (11/2/2009 5:41:50 PM): I know...getting to know you, getting to know all about you...la, la, la
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:42:04 PM): my mother used to sing that to me...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:42:20 PM): I guess the Kind and I came out...when I was a tadpole..
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:42:27 PM): King...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:42:37 PM): did she..? catchy tune...I like the King and I...!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:42:55 PM): yeah...it's pretty good...Yul Brenner...and all..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:43:41 PM): right...my sister and I both worked downtown when we were young and single...we'd sing show tunes all the way to and from work...pretty funny
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:44:07 PM): I tend to sing 'em on the golf course...cracks up my partners...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:44:19 PM): although, sometimes I sing Hebrew blessings instead...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:44:27 PM): I'd love to see that...sweet & cute...hmmm...I don't know any Hebrew blessings...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:45:10 PM): maybe we'll stick to show tunes..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:45:19 PM): is it only the men that sing Hebrew blessings? nah...you have me interested now...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:45:49 PM): I dont think so...even in Orthodox synagogues where the men and women sit apart..
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:45:58 PM): they all sing...I think..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:46:29 PM): I'm always interested in the religions
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:47:17 PM): until you hear me sing hebrew songs...then you wont be so interested...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:47:41 PM): Ha! you could just tell me that's the way they are supposed to sound... & I would not know the difference...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:48:46 PM): perhaps......although...you might suspect they couldnt be THAT out of tune..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:48:48 PM): If I asked...would you...???
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:49:03 PM): would I what...sing one..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:49:22 PM): Yes, sing one. I don't sing well, so it may sound pretty good to me!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:49:40 PM): I think after a drink or 2...I might...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:49:54 PM): I'll keep that in mind...lol...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:50:11 PM): so...did you find a movie to watch tonight..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:50:32 PM): No, I haven't looked to see what's on yet
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:50:52 PM): k....
Karin (11/2/2009 5:50:52 PM): Any suggestions?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:51:06 PM): I dunno what's available....
Karin (11/2/2009 5:51:54 PM): ah...I'm a closet thriller watcher...my daughter never wanted to watch anything too distressing, so I can only watch those films when I'm alone
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:52:26 PM): you may hafta watch 'em without me too...I don't do all that well with 'em either..< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:52:39 PM): I like other genres too though..!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:52:50 PM): whew...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:53:22 PM): I'm not talking about anything like Halloween horror...but a good action thriller...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:53:31 PM): such as..?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:53:43 PM): Silence of the Lambs..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:54:15 PM): Silence of the Lambs...read the book a few years before the film came out...but that is a pretty intense movie...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:54:55 PM): k...Ive never watched it...< g >...cause it was supposed to be so intense...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:55:22 PM): if you don't like that sort of thing... then you should definitely not watch it
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:55:40 PM): I mean...Ive watched bits and pieces of it...but...that's it..
Karin (11/2/2009 5:56:12 PM): there's another one...Steven King...w/Jack Nicholson ...can't think of the name of the film...
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:56:24 PM): the Shining..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:56:43 PM): Yes, that was pretty exciting & a bit disturbing...even for me!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:56:52 PM): never saw it...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:57:34 PM): we'll stick to something more upbeat if we watch a movie together...!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:57:51 PM): yeah...Rosemary's Baby...
Karin (11/2/2009 5:58:17 PM): OHHHH!!! You will never guess what condition I was in when I saw that movie...!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:58:27 PM): Pregnant..?
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:58:30 PM): or stoned..?
Karin (11/2/2009 5:58:38 PM): Yep! Pregnant...totally freaked me out...!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:58:46 PM): I bet...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:59:29 PM): Was living in Germany at the time...and they showed the English language movies at midnight...I was bothered by that movie for months
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:59:40 PM): Never saw it...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 5:59:50 PM): You are so good!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 5:59:57 PM): Pure...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:00:07 PM): ...as the driven snow...???
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:00:33 PM): 99 47/100ths
Karin (11/2/2009 6:01:01 PM): WOW!!! ...that's pretty accurate...not sure where my rating would be...lol...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:01:16 PM): probably higher...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:01:31 PM): yeah, unfortunately, that's probably true....
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:01:53 PM): why is that unfortunate..?
Karin (11/2/2009 6:02:34 PM): I'm not sure...I have a high "ethics" standard... that I have a hard time leaving behind at times...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:02:49 PM): that's commendable..
Karin (11/2/2009 6:03:08 PM): I always want to do the right thing...but it's not always to my benefit to do so...Pshaa!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:03:24 PM): it's a dog eat dog world...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:03:49 PM): it is...so far I have not been eaten...yet...!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:04:06 PM): that's good....right..??
Karin (11/2/2009 6:04:20 PM): I suppose it is...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:04:39 PM): soitenly...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:04:45 PM): I get the feeling that you are giggling at your end...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:05:14 PM): no...I only giggle when my feet are massaged...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:05:23 PM): oh good!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:05:33 PM): why good..?
Karin (11/2/2009 6:06:15 PM): I think that sometimes I may come across as being too good...but I'm really not...I don't think...hmmm...are your feet ticklish?
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:06:38 PM): I feel the same about myself...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:06:49 PM): sure...they're a bit ticklish...arent yours..?
Karin (11/2/2009 6:07:06 PM): That's pretty interesting...yes, my feet are...in certain spots...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:07:21 PM): yep...mine too..
Karin (11/2/2009 6:07:27 PM): the woman who does my foot spa is always telling me to "hold still"
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:08:05 PM): ah....so...you squirm..eh..?? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 6:08:25 PM): yep, I do...she laughs 'cause she knows...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:08:44 PM): I might have fun making you squirm just a bit...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:09:04 PM): I do believe that I would like that...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:09:22 PM): we do each other's feet...!
Karin (11/2/2009 6:09:29 PM): yes!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:09:45 PM): pleasure pleasure and more pleasure..?? < g >
Karin (11/2/2009 6:10:01 PM): exactly...ah...sigh!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:10:25 PM): sounds pretty nice to me...!
Karin (11/2/2009 6:10:57 PM): makes my dizzy to think about all that pleasure with you...!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:11:34 PM): time for BOB...?
Karin (11/2/2009 6:12:06 PM): lol...maybe, I'll have to get a glass of wine...to share w/BOB
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:12:33 PM): you probably dont need to get him drunk...< g >
Karin (11/2/2009 6:12:52 PM): you sure...!!??? just me..!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:13:09 PM): < g >..
Karin (11/2/2009 6:13:31 PM): yes, well...I have no idea what to say now...lol
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:13:44 PM): new topic...< g >.
Karin (11/2/2009 6:13:49 PM): please....
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:13:55 PM): actually...probably time for me to saddle up..
Karin (11/2/2009 6:14:03 PM): ok...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:14:14 PM): your dinner ready..?
Karin (11/2/2009 6:14:25 PM): almost...have been in the mood for Indian food...made some tandoori chicken and need to make the Naan still
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:15:29 PM): sounds good...any good indian restaurants out that way..?
Karin (11/2/2009 6:15:45 PM): yes, in Aurora there's a good one
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:16:41 PM): k........I dont actually know any Indian restaurants in Cleve that I like thta well...there was one in Columbus that I thought was very good.
Karin (11/2/2009 6:17:21 PM): Yes, I picked up some tips from my California sister, who is also a fabulous cook
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:17:38 PM): very good....
Karin (11/2/2009 6:17:51 PM): ok...saddle up...
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:18:03 PM): thanks...young lady...enjoy your dinner...and your evening...
Karin (11/2/2009 6:18:10 PM): You too!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:18:22 PM): talk to you later....!!
Karin (11/2/2009 6:18:28 PM): k...bye love!
Jeff (11/2/2009 6:18:40 PM): bye hon..!!
Later...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:36:00 PM): Going to have a hot shower & tuck myself in...night & sweet dreams dear...!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:37:08 PM): Night dear
Karin (11/2/2009 9:37:14 PM): oops!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:37:27 PM): You working?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:37:28 PM): Oops...!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:38:05 PM): Just finished
Karin (11/2/2009 9:38:07 PM): just finishing my tea.
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:38:22 PM): Ready for bed?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:38:30 PM): yep...you?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:38:46 PM): I think so!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:38:57 PM): I'll meet you there...oh wait...that must be in dreamland...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:39:24 PM): Will you rub my back?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:39:41 PM): I will...taking a hot shower first tho
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:40:04 PM): Together?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:40:21 PM): yes, together would be much better..!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:40:57 PM): K...then we can snuggle?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:41:14 PM): yes, please...snuggling is HIGH on my list
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:41:42 PM): Mine too...specially right now
Karin (11/2/2009 9:41:52 PM): right now?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:42:08 PM): Yep...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:42:25 PM): then...I'm ready to snuggle!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:42:41 PM): Me too...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:42:54 PM): ah...so nice..!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:43:11 PM): Sounds wonderful
Karin (11/2/2009 9:43:21 PM): yes, indeed it does...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:43:32 PM): You'll put on something slinky??
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:43:38 PM): For me?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:43:51 PM): always...for you especially...!!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:44:33 PM): That's what I would love right now...you in something slinky… in my arms
Karin (11/2/2009 9:44:57 PM): ME TOO! ...would love nothing better...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:45:19 PM): :)
Karin (11/2/2009 9:45:31 PM): I can almost feel that...your body next to mine
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:46:22 PM): Would hold you tight...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:46:47 PM): yes, please!! closer & tighter is very good!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:47:34 PM): Tightly against you separated only by your flimsy nightie and maybe my boxers
Karin (11/2/2009 9:47:50 PM): yes, BIG SIGH ...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:48:41 PM): Hand on your ass...pulling tight to me
Karin (11/2/2009 9:48:56 PM): VERY nice...I'm not letting that thought go when I get under the covers...you are making me feel pretty warm here!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:49:57 PM): Oh to be able to read your mind then
Karin (11/2/2009 9:50:29 PM): lol...Oh yeah...all you'd need to do is ask...everything that I was thinking would come out of my mouth...into your ear...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:51:39 PM): Well I wanna know what you fantasize about, cause I'd like to do those things with you
Karin (11/2/2009 9:51:47 PM): ...all yours
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:51:49 PM): All those things
Karin (11/2/2009 9:52:32 PM): all of them indeed...from the sensual to the wild?
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:52:46 PM): Uh huh...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:53:06 PM): I'd tell you everything that I'm thinking...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:53:31 PM): I'd love that...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:53:57 PM): I'd also like to know what's going through your mind...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:54:11 PM): Deal...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:54:31 PM): for me...this is a very hot conversation...does that seem strange to you? I mean...this type of intimacy...being able to tell all...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:54:59 PM): Not at all...It's very sexy...
Karin (11/2/2009 9:55:13 PM):  thank you !!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:56:05 PM): No...its very sexy...cause of how well I know you...and quite frankly cause I wanna hold you
Karin (11/2/2009 9:56:37 PM): hmmmm...yes...you simply make me crazy...on many levels...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:57:07 PM): Is that good?
Karin (11/2/2009 9:57:21 PM): it is a very good thing..!!
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:57:40 PM): For me too!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:57:53 PM): That makes me quite happy!!
Karin (11/2/2009 9:58:24 PM): ok...more than quite happy...
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:58:59 PM): :)
Jeff (11/2/2009 9:59:37 PM): Well dear should I let you go curl up?
Karin (11/2/2009 10:00:05 PM): Yes, it's time...finished my tea...ready to dream...about you
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:00:37 PM): Can I fantasize about you?
Karin (11/2/2009 10:00:46 PM): I hope you do...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:01:05 PM): No doubt...
Karin (11/2/2009 10:01:11 PM): Perhaps we'll have the same fantasy...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:01:45 PM): Mmm...that would be sexy
Karin (11/2/2009 10:02:00 PM): Very sexy...!! Sleep well...
Jeff (11/2/2009 10:02:27 PM): You too hon...nite
Karin (11/2/2009 10:02:34 PM): Nite baby!
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More next Saturday…
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