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Today's Narrative:
I watched a program on TV (TLC) about people who cheat on their spouses and was shocked to see the statistics. Aside from the 50% divorce rate, which I think is pretty common knowledge, evidently one out of every four married people cheat on their spouses - both men and women. Two couples were highlighted in this program. The wives of both couples were the ones who cheated on their husbands. During the program, statistics were given every so often and one of those statistics was that 60% of married women said they would cheat if they knew they would not get caught. They also said every person who cheats is narcissistic (the one thing that Jeff knew about himself).
All of this information makes me wonder why anyone gets married at all. (Those of us who do not cheat are clearly a minority.) I can only speculate that many people cannot and do not communicate very well with their spouses. Does this mean that the majority of married couples are living lives of quiet desperation? To me, that seems like a horrible existence...it's like waiting to die. By that I mean if we are just waiting for things to happen -or for them to end in some manner- we are simply waiting for this life to be over with. Men and women need to take a look at their lives, to make their existence better. When we are truly in love, we also desire to enhance the lives of our partners, we want to be happy and we also want those around us to be happy. Life, in general, is difficult enough as it is for us not to desire a little bliss and something meaningful in some area of our existence.
After my debacle with Jeff ended I was not sure he had a conscience. I contemplated that fact with a bit more intensity after I discovered that he was having multiple affairs while engaged to be married, during the planning period for his wedding, and then continuing on with his duplicitous behavior after his union with Karen with an "e." (duplicitous: marked by deliberate deceptiveness especially by pretending one set of feelings and acting under the influence of another; intentional deceptiveness; double-dealing.)
Actually, at this point in time, I believe that his protestations of not being able to get away from this woman -who turned out to be his wife- were nothing more than statements to ease his own conscience. Perhaps he thought that by declaring his lack of love in that relationship that it was for him some sort of excusable escape from the reality of his true actions. I know he hurt at least two innocent people as a result of his nefarious dealings, and unless he and his wife are living in some sort of open marriage, it's likely he hurt his wife as well. But, after comparing notes with another woman that he pulled into his tangled "affair" web, things became a little clearer to me. He spends his free time smoking pot and she (the wife) evidently downs a bottle of wine every evening. Perhaps that's how they manage to stand each other from one day to the next...numbed to the reality of their existence. How pathetic!
I still find it pretty darn amusing that Jeff thought that I had betrayed him and his trust when he was the only one with betrayal in his soul. He had concluded, and convinced his wife, that I was the person who had hurt them both! (Unbelievable!!) He has betrayed every woman in his life, I think that it's likely that he has even betrayed his own children with his lies. He is, after all, an excellent manipulator.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Today's Narrative:
I watched a program on TV (TLC) about people who cheat on their spouses and was shocked to see the statistics. Aside from the 50% divorce rate, which I think is pretty common knowledge, evidently one out of every four married people cheat on their spouses - both men and women. Two couples were highlighted in this program. The wives of both couples were the ones who cheated on their husbands. During the program, statistics were given every so often and one of those statistics was that 60% of married women said they would cheat if they knew they would not get caught. They also said every person who cheats is narcissistic (the one thing that Jeff knew about himself).
All of this information makes me wonder why anyone gets married at all. (Those of us who do not cheat are clearly a minority.) I can only speculate that many people cannot and do not communicate very well with their spouses. Does this mean that the majority of married couples are living lives of quiet desperation? To me, that seems like a horrible existence...it's like waiting to die. By that I mean if we are just waiting for things to happen -or for them to end in some manner- we are simply waiting for this life to be over with. Men and women need to take a look at their lives, to make their existence better. When we are truly in love, we also desire to enhance the lives of our partners, we want to be happy and we also want those around us to be happy. Life, in general, is difficult enough as it is for us not to desire a little bliss and something meaningful in some area of our existence.
After my debacle with Jeff ended I was not sure he had a conscience. I contemplated that fact with a bit more intensity after I discovered that he was having multiple affairs while engaged to be married, during the planning period for his wedding, and then continuing on with his duplicitous behavior after his union with Karen with an "e." (duplicitous: marked by deliberate deceptiveness especially by pretending one set of feelings and acting under the influence of another; intentional deceptiveness; double-dealing.)
Actually, at this point in time, I believe that his protestations of not being able to get away from this woman -who turned out to be his wife- were nothing more than statements to ease his own conscience. Perhaps he thought that by declaring his lack of love in that relationship that it was for him some sort of excusable escape from the reality of his true actions. I know he hurt at least two innocent people as a result of his nefarious dealings, and unless he and his wife are living in some sort of open marriage, it's likely he hurt his wife as well. But, after comparing notes with another woman that he pulled into his tangled "affair" web, things became a little clearer to me. He spends his free time smoking pot and she (the wife) evidently downs a bottle of wine every evening. Perhaps that's how they manage to stand each other from one day to the next...numbed to the reality of their existence. How pathetic!
I still find it pretty darn amusing that Jeff thought that I had betrayed him and his trust when he was the only one with betrayal in his soul. He had concluded, and convinced his wife, that I was the person who had hurt them both! (Unbelievable!!) He has betrayed every woman in his life, I think that it's likely that he has even betrayed his own children with his lies. He is, after all, an excellent manipulator.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:29:26 AM): Mornin, missy...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:29:46 AM): Hello!! ...how are you today?
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:30:10 AM): Good...on this bright, sun-shiney day...How bout you..?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:30:48 AM): Very well! Have not been outside yet...looks beautiful...I'm waiting for the frost to go away..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:31:16 AM): Yeah...a bit crisp...But, not too terrible...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:31:38 AM): Yeah, I love this weather.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:31:57 AM): yep......beats what's comin.!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:32:21 AM): it certainly does...Autumn and Spring are my favorite seasons
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:33:14 AM): yep......cause we can play golf..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:33:37 AM): You golfers!!...lol...Although I think I could live in a place like Costa Rica no problem.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:34:00 AM): do they have golf courses..?? the human spirit can't exist without golf..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:34:34 AM): Ha! Yes, not only do they have golf, but their healthcare well exceeds that of the U.S. (general stats)
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:34:56 AM): who cares about healthcare....how are their greens...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:35:39 AM): lol...I think you'd likely be impressed with their greens...they have multiple climates...and greens to match.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:35:52 AM): poifect...!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:36:03 AM): yes!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:36:09 AM): can I visit you when you move there...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:36:16 AM): :)
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:36:28 AM): can I bring my clubs..?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:36:29 AM): hmmmm...maybe....
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:36:47 AM): pretty please..?? < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:37:05 AM): okay...since you put it that way...!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:37:24 AM): yes..!! Im making my reservations...!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:37:49 AM): alright...do I need to send you a calendar of events??
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:38:31 AM): hmmm...do you think Id be bored there...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:39:07 AM): nope, I guarantee you will not be bored...!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:39:25 AM): will you be wearing skimpy island attire..??
Karin (11/3/2009 9:39:40 AM): Yes, I will...:)
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:39:58 AM): no boredom here, then...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:40:13 AM): would be like B+P ALL the time...! I think I'd love that.
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:40:35 AM): you wouldnt be the only one luvin it...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 9:41:10 AM): ...and you?...what will you be wearing my dear...hmmmmm???
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:41:25 AM): a thong..?? lol
Karin (11/3/2009 9:41:41 AM): lol...ok, that works for me...!!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:41:59 AM): nah...I think you'd just be laughing all the time..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:42:17 AM): oh, come on...please..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:42:39 AM): although, laughter is good...no...?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:43:08 AM): yes, it is very good...you could wear a grass wrap over if you like...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:43:23 AM): like a sarong..?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:43:23 AM): can you hula???
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:43:37 AM): I can...I do remember at the age of about 10....
Karin (11/3/2009 9:43:38 AM): a sarong, or a grass skirt...yes???
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:43:52 AM): I tried to set the world's hula hoop record...and...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:44:15 AM): pulled my stomach muscle so badly, had to go to doctor's and he prescribed some awful liquid medicine..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:44:22 AM): have a distinct recollection..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:44:46 AM): omg...so you did not set the record huh? wonder what the medicine was....
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:45:23 AM): I think I fell a few spins short..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:45:27 AM): yeah...I dont know...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:46:14 AM): funny!!...my sister & I were avid hula hoopers...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:46:31 AM): I challenge you..!!!!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:47:02 AM): alright, but I'm guessing that you may win at this point...do I get to practice for a few weeks?
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:47:17 AM): I think I need practice more than you...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:47:55 AM): last time I had a hula hoop around my middle was about 15 years or so ago...I could still do it, but not for too long
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:48:25 AM): yeah...well...I concede that you're the winner...so we don't hurt ourselves..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:48:42 AM): whew...!!! I was "sweating" that one...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:49:12 AM): you're the winner and still champion..!
Karin (11/3/2009 9:49:20 AM): do you play croquet?
Karin (11/3/2009 9:49:30 AM): YEA for me!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:49:49 AM): I have played croquet...tho, not for many years...I kinda enjoyed it..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:50:42 AM): Yes, I like croquet...I used to have an annual game out here...each player got their own bottle of champagne and a mallet...lol...it was pretty wild
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:51:23 AM): sounds like fun...I was in a place in Florida last fall called Boca Grande...on the west coast...had a beautiful croquet field where I stayed..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:51:36 AM): the Gasparilla Inn...nice place...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:51:44 AM): Do you remember the county?
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:52:04 AM): near Fort Myers...but dont remember the county...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:52:40 AM): I used to live in Pinellas County
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:53:13 AM): my friends from college grew up in Pinellas County...I think..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:53:39 AM): I had a lot of fun when I was there, but it's pretty transient
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:54:15 AM): my college roommate moved to Treasure Island...in St. Pete, after college...Lived right on the ocean...Wonderful place..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:54:22 AM): he grew up in Tampa...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:54:43 AM): Yeah!! That's very cool, I had friends in that area too...
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:55:22 AM): actually had 2 friends from Tampa...fratty club brothers of mine...one was a college roomie...the other a law school roomie..
Karin (11/3/2009 9:56:08 AM): Tampa is interesting too, some of the old homes down in St. Pete are fantastic..
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:56:57 AM): I still am in touch with both guys...still very close with the law school roomie...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:57:35 AM): It's nice to stay close with your past friends. After I moved back up here, I swore that I was never going to move out of my longitude and latitude again
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:58:23 AM): yeah...Ive got 3-4 high school buddies here in Cleve that Im pretty close with...and 3-4 buds from college...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:59:37 AM): very nice...I can't make the same claim...although there are a few women that I would not mind re-connecting with
Jeff (11/3/2009 9:59:56 AM): me too...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 10:00:09 AM): Ha!...funny!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:00:28 AM): that's probably their reaction... too..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:00:40 AM): Nah!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:01:00 AM): Maybe I could get an endorsement, from you...?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:01:13 AM): it depends...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:01:25 AM): on..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:01:46 AM): what type of endorsement you'd want...sorry, I can be selfish...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:03:14 AM): hmmm...I think I like your selfishness..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:03:57 AM): but, I would say that you were charming...maybe...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:04:22 AM): awwww...thanks, dear...! Do I hafta make endorsements to your beaus, too..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:05:19 AM): Nope...(I could say a number of things here, but suffice it to say that there's only a single beau that I'd like...)
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:06:08 AM): Thanks for not saying more...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 10:06:32 AM): I am a singularly focused woman..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:06:47 AM): Good...< g >...So, what's going on in town today..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:07:04 AM): Not much...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:07:28 AM): a day of leisure...huh..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:07:38 AM): just lounging around...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:08:22 AM): would you like some company this PM..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:08:38 AM): YES...would love some company!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:09:09 AM): Yes..!! Well...I was going to shoot to try to get out of here around 2:30...
Karin (11/3/2009 10:09:27 AM): great...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:09:40 AM): I guess "shoot to try"...is redundant... Sorry...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:09:55 AM): How can I make it up to you..?
Karin (11/3/2009 10:10:09 AM): I can think of a few ways....
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:10:13 AM): I hate to waste your time with redundancies...!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:10:29 AM): sometimes redundancy is a good thing...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:10:41 AM): try...tho probably not "shoot to try"...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:10:47 AM): true...not try..
Karin (11/3/2009 10:10:53 AM): no, but, to achieve perfection...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:11:13 AM): Im just shooting for mediocrity... personally...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:11:24 AM): that would be huge step up..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:11:47 AM): huh!!?? ...Simon says "Take a giant step!"
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:12:02 AM): I was never good at that game....
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:12:26 AM): anyway...Im gonna throw myself back into the stuff on my desk......but...plan to head your way this aft...
Karin (11/3/2009 10:12:29 AM): I see...but you said that you take instruction well...??
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:12:45 AM): depends on the instructress..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:13:03 AM): ok...we'll have to work on that - back to work for you then..!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:13:35 AM): I did bring my medical marijuana with me... will you be offended if I wanna take puff puff at your place...??
Karin (11/3/2009 10:13:49 AM): Nope...did I appear offended before?
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:13:59 AM): you're so good to me...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:14:11 AM): I wasnt sure if you were clenching your teeth tightly last time..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:14:17 AM): I know...I'll always be good to you!!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:14:28 AM): No teeth clenching here...
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:14:39 AM): k....good......
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:14:59 AM): I will circle back at some point, just to update you on status...etc....
Karin (11/3/2009 10:15:13 AM): catch you later then
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:15:26 AM): k...have fun this AM, dear...talk to you in a bit...
Karin (11/3/2009 10:15:36 AM): k...you too!
Jeff (11/3/2009 10:15:46 AM): bye..!
Karin (11/3/2009 10:15:49 AM): bye!
Later...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:12:24 PM): Hello, young lady....Everything seems to still be on track...! So, still planning on exiting here around 2:30....
Later...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:31:28 PM): Hi...great! Can't wait..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:31:41 PM): Are you back..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:31:48 PM): I am...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:32:33 PM): You know...my day is much more pleasant when I know Im leaving for a get together I look forward to, at 2:30...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:33:19 PM): lol...mine too!! Did you have lunch yet?
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:33:53 PM): I did have a bite...you want me to bring you something..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:34:05 PM): no, I'm good here, but thanks!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:34:54 PM): anything your little heart desired..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:35:16 PM): My little heart desires to see you...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:35:32 PM): awww...mine desires to see you, too...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:35:59 PM): or is that feel you?? hmmm...you are wonderful!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:36:26 PM): whichever...!!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:37:01 PM): right...get what you need to do done...and come on down...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:37:15 PM): yes'm...!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:37:18 PM): :)
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:37:58 PM): you are so domineering with me..!!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:38:31 PM): You think...It's for your own good!! lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:38:58 PM): what is for my own good..?? when you handcuff me and lead me away..?? < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:39:11 PM): That's right...! Everything I do for you...is for your good ...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:39:36 PM): yes, ma'am...Id like another...!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:39:59 PM): good answer...lol...(kiss)
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:40:22 PM): mmmm... I wasnt even sure what "another" I was getting.......!!! I like that one..!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:40:50 PM): well any "another" from me will be good for you...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:41:20 PM): again, yes ma'am.....!!! Not tooo much pain tho...k..??
Karin (11/3/2009 12:41:47 PM): Nah, I would never do anything to really hurt you...maybe just a playful "ouch"...!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:42:29 PM): tit for tat..?? < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:42:41 PM): yes...tit for tat..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:43:16 PM): so to speak...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:43:30 PM): right...uh-huh..!...what is a tat?
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:43:57 PM): I was gonna ask for the whole phrase to be explained...< g >
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:44:53 PM): dont give me a definition that's gonna make me blush...!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:45:55 PM): ummm...well, tit - of course... we all know about slang: female breast / or hussey
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:46:23 PM): seeee..!! you made me blush..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:46:48 PM): Ooops!!! ...sorry...I forget how shy you are!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:47:13 PM): sigh.........
Karin (11/3/2009 12:47:18 PM): I think it's basically this for that...sigh, indeed..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:48:06 PM): yep...this for that..is how I'd define it...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:48:13 PM): like quid pro quo...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:48:42 PM): yes...or perhaps a guide of "what for what" is an equal exchange...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:49:55 PM): I think I prefer the latter...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:50:19 PM): k...not sure if I'll have that ready by the time you get here...improvisation may be required...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:51:00 PM): I have great faith in your improvisational skills..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:51:17 PM): thank you dear...and I of yours!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:51:52 PM): but...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:51:56 PM): yes..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:52:21 PM): I ruined my little black dress...:)...got a drop of bleach on the elbow...very sad...I'll have to get another...I love that dress...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:53:15 PM): aww...that's too bad...but...I'll take you in any attire available...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:53:27 PM): thank goodness..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:53:49 PM): yep...we can save the little black dress for a special occasion...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:54:17 PM): okay!...I've actually got another little black dress...just for you..!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:54:54 PM): wow....of course...again that could be saved for special occasion too...
Karin (11/3/2009 12:55:43 PM): yes, it is very nice, low cut...have some great black heels to go with...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:55:56 PM): yummy....< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 12:56:26 PM): did I send you a pic from the wedding that I went to a few weeks ago?...had my little brown dress on...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:56:45 PM): I dont think so....?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:56:51 PM): you want it?
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:57:03 PM): sure...!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:57:27 PM): can you see it?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:57:35 PM): my goofy smile..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:58:09 PM): I can see it...Smile is fine...Though can't see much of dress..!
Karin (11/3/2009 12:58:41 PM): nah...I cropped the pic...my neighbor had his arm around me...ugh! I like my neighbor's...just not that close to me...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:59:08 PM): lol..
Karin (11/3/2009 12:59:23 PM): I could show you the entire pic...but then...
Jeff (11/3/2009 12:59:29 PM): yes..?
Karin (11/3/2009 12:59:43 PM):not sure what I'd have to do to you after...:)
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:00:09 PM): still sounds interesting...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:00:34 PM): Ha!...I may need consolation...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:00:51 PM): for what..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:01:06 PM): being that close to my neighbor...or the thought of it...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:01:47 PM): ah....well..you can bury your head on my shoulder...if you become overcome with...revulsion..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:02:25 PM): Thank you!! ...I'll show you the whole pic when you get here...you'll notice my body language...lol...sorry, I need to be nice now.
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:03:14 PM): nah....we can be catty about your neighbor...I dont mind..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:04:08 PM): Thanks!!...He is an idiot at times...there have, literally been years when I did not speak to him for some of the boneheaded things that he has done...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:04:38 PM): hmmm...well...again...I dont think Im gonna chastise you for that...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:04:52 PM): you are so forgiving...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:05:22 PM): I try...(although I do expect some gratitude in response..< g >..)
Karin (11/3/2009 1:05:28 PM): enough about the neighbors...Back to me and you...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:05:39 PM): yes, dear...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:05:47 PM): What kind of gratitude do you have in mind...???
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:06:10 PM): I was gonna leave it to your very creative mind...!!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:06:23 PM): sometimes I can be overly grateful...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:06:56 PM): I think Im gonna enjoying eliciting gratitude from you..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:07:04 PM): you may have to tell me "enough" ...lol...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:07:27 PM): maybe...maybe not...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:07:37 PM): lol...you are giving me goose bumps again...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:04 PM): and you might be telling me “enough” at times too...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:08:23 PM): Nah...I seriously doubt that...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:36 PM): you are a such a sweetie...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:41 PM): in all seriousness..
Karin (11/3/2009 1:08:41 PM): :) thanks...I think you are too..!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:08:57 PM): why am I sitting around here
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:09:03 PM): thanks...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:09:13 PM): yeah...I don't know...!!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:09:35 PM): well...Ill try to get out before too terribly long...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:10:02 PM): the sooner, the better I say..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:10:49 PM): yeah...just finish off a couple things here...and then steal off into the night..!!!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:11:00 PM): alright...!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:11:46 PM): So...do you need me to pick up some wine...or alky haulic beverage..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:12:02 PM): no...I think I have everything here...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:12:04 PM): Not to presume that you're gonna join me for drink...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:12:16 PM): I am going to join you!! are we having wine...or Bloody Mary's?
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:13:13 PM): up to you...although, I do have cream colored sweater on....BM's could be dangerous...< g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:13:51 PM): well, I guess the same could be said about the red wine...need a bib? ...or you could take your sweater off ;)
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:14:24 PM): what if I get cold..??
Karin (11/3/2009 1:14:35 PM): I'll keep you warm...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:15:00 PM): then let's do the BMs or red wine..!! < g >
Karin (11/3/2009 1:15:20 PM): Ha! ...Okay, good idea..! lol
Karin (11/3/2009 1:15:47 PM): I'm gonna make you decide when you get here...something to occupy your mind on the drive...thinker that you are...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:16:26 PM): you mean decide on wine or Bloody Mary's..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:16:32 PM): Yep
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:17:01 PM): k...right now...I think Im in mood for wine...probably cause I threw down a few Bloody Mary's last night..!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:17:13 PM): wine works for me too
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:17:33 PM): but...I could go both ways...!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:17:54 PM): oh NO!!! ...lol... I may have to make this decision on my own ..!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:18:10 PM): whatever your little heart desires...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:18:25 PM): we'll figure this dilemma out yet...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:18:39 PM): one dilemma at a time...eh..?
Karin (11/3/2009 1:19:07 PM): yes, I guess it's like baby steps...tho I do prefer the leaps and bounds...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:19:26 PM): k...Ill leap and bound around your kitchen...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:19:46 PM): alright...I'll get my camera ready...lol
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:19:52 PM): before I forget...if I need to call...is it on XXX exchange..??
Karin (11/3/2009 1:20:04 PM): Yes
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:20:11 PM): yep...got it..
Karin (11/3/2009 1:20:16 PM): ok...come and get it...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:20:46 PM): I am looking forward to hanging out...!
Karin (11/3/2009 1:20:53 PM): me too!! I need to have a bite...(lunch, I mean)...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:22:03 PM): you go girl...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:22:16 PM): don't get lost..!!
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:22:39 PM): I probably still have half hour or so here... yet...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:22:49 PM): yes...do you want to keep chatting...or do you need to wrap things up? work-wise, I mean
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:23:47 PM): why dont I do some wrapping...and then Ill IM you...when Im getting ready to roll...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:23:55 PM): good deal...
Jeff (11/3/2009 1:24:04 PM): k...cya in a few...
Karin (11/3/2009 1:24:08 PM): k -
Later...
Jeff (11/3/2009 2:28:23 PM): so much for my real early exit..!! < g >...but Im gonna leave now..!
Karin (11/3/2009 2:28:38 PM): now is good...!
Jeff (11/3/2009 2:28:52 PM): k...cya in a bit..!
Karin (11/3/2009 2:29:04 PM): drive carefully!
Jeff (11/3/2009 2:29:21 PM): yes, dear...!! bye..!!
Karin (11/3/2009 2:29:29 PM): bye!
Later...
Karin (11/3/2009 6:11:18 PM): I know, I know...here I am with a message already..!
Karin (11/3/2009 6:13:38 PM): You did a couple of pretty wonderful things to me. I have a question for you...next time we are both online. Aside from when can we do that again...? Sigh...wish you had more time (... but you probably knew that statement was coming, eh?) Hmmm...have realized that the "deed and dash" has made me feel a tiny bit insecure...interesting phenomenon...
Later...
Jeff (11/3/2009 8:37:11 PM): Thank you for wonderful afternoon .
Jeff (11/3/2009 8:38:02 PM): I gotta do and dash again...Sorry talk to you tomorrow
Later...
Karin (11/3/2009 9:40:15 PM): Well, there you go then...tomorrow...Good Night..!
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More next Saturday…
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